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  • greent
    greent Posts: 10,836 Forumite
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    More wished for Mr S_l's recovery - I hope he's home soon 
    I am the master of my fate; I am the captain of my soul
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  • Makingabobor2
    Makingabobor2 Posts: 4,365 Forumite
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    Sending healing vibes to Mr SL. Hope he's home soon
    Making the debt go down and savings go up

    LBM 2015 - debt £57K / Now £28,084....its going down

     Mortgage Free December 9th 2024!      18mths ahead of schedule.  Since 2022 we paid over £15K in OPs.

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  • rtandon27
    rtandon27 Posts: 6,082 Forumite
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    Sending supportive vibes your way xoxox
    4 YEARS 10 MONTHS DEBT FREE!!! (24 OCT 2016)
    (With heartfelt thanks to those who have gone before us & their indubitable generosity.)
    ...and now I have a mortgage! (23 AUG 2021)
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  • Sun_Addict
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    Hope Mr SL recovers quickly. My daughter is having the same op on Friday. Her friend had the same experience as Mr SL. 
    I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)
  • dawnybabes
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    Eek, not good, I also went for a simple keyhole removal but woke up in a different room and a 3” incision - they’d had to convert it to open surgery.  After a few days I bounced back. 

    He’s in the best place to get fixed, hope he’s home soon x 
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  • KajiKita
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    Sending hugs to you and recovery vibes to Mr SL.

    KK
    As at 15.10.25:
    - When bought house £315,995 mortgage debt and end date at start = October 2039 - now £229,702
    - OPs to mortgage = £12,345 Estd. interest saved = £5,863 to date
    Fixed rate 3.85% ends October 2030

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  • tiddles
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    Sending you and Mr SL my very best wishes xx
  • Humdinger1
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    edited 31 May at 7:14PM
    Sending love to you both @Suffolk_lass.  I've always heard that honey has fantastic healing propert.  Humdinger xx
  • Watty1
    Watty1 Posts: 7,280 Forumite
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    Somehow I missed Mr SL being in hospital. I am so sorry.   I do hope the weekend is comfortable and you have news on Monday.  Sending love
    Made it to mortgage free but what a muddle that became

    In the event the proverbial hits the fan then co-habitees are better stashing their cash than being mortgage free !!
  • Suffolk_lass
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    Sun_Addict said:
    Hope Mr SL recovers quickly. My daughter is having the same op on Friday. Her friend had the same experience as Mr SL. 
    @Sun_Addict do you happen to know if there were any long-term impacts on your daughter's friend's bowel?

    Both Mr Sl's siblings have had bowel cancer. My brother in law died from complications (well, no pressure stockings caused a clot to hit his heart) after having a stent fitted when he had just been diagnosed with S4 bowel cancer, and my sister in law had bowel cancer diagnosed last month through resultant familial screening (like me, she has three-yearly interventions) and had the op on Friday.
    Save £12k in 2025 #2 I am at £10,020.92 out of £6000 after September
    OS Grocery Challenge in 2025 I am at £2234.63/£3000 or 74.49% of my annual spend so far (not going to be much of a Christmas at this rate as no spare after 9 months!
    I also Reverse Meal Plan on that thread and grow much of our own premium price fruit and veg, joining in on the Grow your own thread
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