Anyway out of this for me?

Need_To_Sort_It

I'm gutted cos I'm b**grred now

Keeping_Positive

Your have done so well. Please dont let it get you down.

Need_To_Sort_It

I am trying its hard, its ok to put £25 a week on paper for food for the 3 of us but doing it is another matter.

Ignore me I'm being a misery sorry

southernscouser

Need_To_Sort_It wrote: »

I'm gutted cos I'm b**grred now

Absolute b0llocks.

You had a plan without relying on that @rsehole. I know it's gonna be tough and it's easy for me to say, but you can do it. And you will do it.

Have a read back from the start of this thread and draw some strength from how far you've come and how much you have achieved. You've done bloody well so far and I don't expect anything less from you now.

Need_To_Sort_It

Oh god, thought I was all cried out.

I am sure I can do it, I just dont really know how yet. I cant get the sums to add up properly, I cant think straight, I cant see again, my head is bumping, I wanna track the b@stard down and hit him very hard cos my kids are going without - dont get me wrong having a mother who spent like Joan Collins when she was mad as a box of frogs hasnt helped in the least, I am very loathing of the illness right now, I just feel sick, all over again. It was looking so hopeful. Silly me.

CSA told me he was sacked, they shouldn't have but they did so that means he will struggle to find a job for a while and I'm a long way off qualifying to earn some money. Cant get help with mortgage costs for 9 months cos I am week over a linking period, I feel like its coming at me all ways at the moment.

I still havent heard from my £1 offers from 5 of the creditors, still waiting for the court papers and charging order process.

See, told you I was a misery

southernscouser

Would posting an up to date SOA help? We could take another look at it?

Need_To_Sort_It

Yes it would. I will do it tomorrow, I cant think right now to get it up to date cos I cleared some crap off when I had the payment what last week was it, or the week before dunno. I'll work on it tomorrow and get it sorted. Need to go to bed.

Thank you, again.

craftyanny

Hiya Frankie
I've just discovered your thread and to say I'm amazed is an umderstatement. You're an inspiration to everyone both on coping with your debts and your illness.
You've done so well in just seven short weeks, you should be very proud of yourself.
Tomorrow is another day hun, get up dust yourself down and start again. You've been there done that and got the t-shirt by the sounds of it so the only way is up.
Good luck and hugs to you
Anne

Need_To_Sort_It

Hi anne, thank you for posting. I dont feel like I am coping too well right now, I should be in college at this moment but I couldn't face going and now I feel poo about that too!

I am exhausted, I didnt sleep too good last night so I am gonna grab a couple of hours and then maybe I can think straight

In_Search_Of_Me

aww Mrs I was wondering how you were as hadnt heard from you in a while. Sorry to hear that piece of news but on the good side at least you got £1000 eh...Have you spoken to your CPN about how you're feeling? Am worried that you are a little close to the edge for my lovely? PM me if you want to meet for coffee over the weekend and I'll do what I can...big hugs for you. If yo can muster the strength redo the SOA, get in the phone to CPM & tell her that this debt is a priority as its affecting your stability & you need some help with it.