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I had already planned to head off to the next town to collect some books for work. It looked like it was going to be wonderfully warm and sunny, so I decided to treat myself to a fun day off. I packed a picnic and after collecting the books -all old, obscure 1970's and 80's computer books for a customer 😴 but he'll be delighted!- I sat by the river, munching some homemade flapjack with my flask of tea and thought "Damn, I have a great life!" 😊
Walking through the town, sun on my face, I noticed some adorable little plants for sale outside a charity shop. Cheese plants, money plants, cactus, spider plants. I went in to ask the price- and ended up buying them all for just £4 😃 I know I should be considering every penny I spend but this charity is a small, local wildlife rescue centre, so I don't begrudge them a few pounds. I plan on painting or decoupaging some of the small ceramic pots I got for 5p or 10p each in the Wilko closing down sale and repotting some of the plants to make lovely zero-waste presents. May even have a go at making some simple macramé plant holders!
Then I made the killer mistake of popping into Oxfam Books....(anyone who knows me knows I have a SERIOUS book shop addiction!) Tried to resist, but found a book that had been on my Wishlist for a while, Nancy Birtwhistle's "Green Living Made Easy" for £2.49. Immaculate, as new condition. I remembered my promise to myself of No Unnecessary Spending and put the book back on the shelf and left the shop....only to walk to the end of the road, realised I would regret not buying it, that I've had friends and family looking for a used copy for me for so long, I didn't know if and when I'd find another...so went back and bought it. I know! I have no will-power when it comes to books! Any other biblioaddicts will understand 😆 Just a few months ago I would have thought nothing of just clicking the "Buy Now" button from somewhere like Amazon for £14.99, so I will think of today's small charity shop purchases as "Considered Purchases" or "Charity Donations" rather than mindless spending- if only to make myself feel better!
So, £6.49 spent today. And absolutely no regrets! Four plants I am keeping for myself are now have a new home in my bathroom and make me happy-dance every time I see them ❤️ The book is brilliant- there's even a page on painting terracotta plant pots for gifts! If you know me, you know what you'll be getting for your birthday present this year. I hope you like plants and homemade cake! 😆
@Worlds_Worst_Superhero, I think that all of those spends were considered and added to your quality of life, so aren’t ’frivolous’.
FWIW, I allow myself a set amount of cash ‘pocket money’ per month so worthy spends like this are covered without guilt or angst. It obviously depends on your budget if you can afford to do this. My rules are, ‘once it’s gone, it’s gone’ and ‘every payday is a re-set, any left over monies get carried over and only ‘topped up’ in the new month’ - that way any pocket money not spent, stays in my accounts and is available for savings or OPs.
KK
As at 15.07.25: - When bought house £315,995 mortgage debt and end date at start = October 2039 - now £233,521 - OPs to mortgage = £11,816 Interest saved £5,28 to date Fixed rate 3.85% ends January 2030
Read 40 books of target 52 in 2025, as @ 29th July Produce tracker: £243 of £300 in 2025
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@Worlds_Worst_Superhero those sounds like lovely gifts. I love anything thoughful and handmade 🥰.
I thought I'd commented this morning but I can't find it now.
Not a NSD for me today as we're going out for tea, although I am using money from my jar which I've been gifted.
I paid my son back £5 which I owed him. My husband took my card last weekend and when I was out with my son the only card I had was AMEX, which the shop didn't accept so I has to borrow off him 🫣
Collecting a Too Good To Go bag tonight, I've never tried one before...I shall report back 🫡
As at 15.07.25: - When bought house £315,995 mortgage debt and end date at start = October 2039 - now £233,521 - OPs to mortgage = £11,816 Interest saved £5,28 to date Fixed rate 3.85% ends January 2030
Read 40 books of target 52 in 2025, as @ 29th July Produce tracker: £243 of £300 in 2025
Watch your thoughts, they become your words. Watch your words, they become your actions.