Redemption - The journey of a recovering gambling addict.

plu

Hi

deleted my last post - I quoted a mumsnet thread, where the poster's "DH" did not have your courage. But I dont think its right here. (There are many MN threads regarding gambling addiction.)

True congratulations on your 6 months and well done (if that does'nt sound patronising ) 

alt80

Brilliant news mate, I’m made up for you. Keep on the path. 

kezzygirl

Well done on the no gambling, you seem steadfast in your decision and focused on getting better-by the sounds of it you're smashing the debt to pieces too! 

Sarahwithlove

You're doing fab! Sounds like 2025 is going to be good for you financially. 

Lonelygambler

Wow, where is the time going. The last month has been so busy and I was unwell for a week. 

This combined with an intense week of work has nearly sent me over the edge! 

However nearly 7 months without a gamble. The urges have nearly finished, however I feel I need to delete my instagram as I do net gambling stories on my feed. 

Money wise has been reasonable. No new debt, no savings unfortunately but Netwest on the final £500. 

Waiting for my pay rise to be agreed and backdated so that will help, alongside Apple loan finishing soon. 

I have upped my living allowance to £200 a weekend what ever is left over goes to debt. 

Once I have cleared Netwest I am going to
up my boys ISA’s still have a long way to go. However things are moving ok. 

Relationship with my wife is recovering, we’re both exhausted 24:7 so that’s just life for us at the moment. 

If you know someone who is a gambler make sure you check in on them. 

GAMfam is the best charity. 

LG

Lonelygambler

plu said:

Hi

deleted my last post - I quoted a mumsnet thread, where the poster's "DH" did not have your courage. But I dont think its right here. (There are many MN threads regarding gambling addiction.)

True congratulations on your 6 months and well done (if that does'nt sound patronising ) 

Thanks - Taking the step to admit my illness has really helped me. 

londoner2019

Another lovely update. You got this!

Lonelygambler

It's been nearly 8 months on this journey, and while I’m not someone who shares updates daily, it’s important to acknowledge the progress and the struggles along the way.

This path hasn’t been easy. I still experience urges, and I continue to attend therapy. It's helping, but it’s a slow, steady grind.

The hardest part is seeing my personal debt and feeling so much anger. Each month, I make progress, but I find myself looking toward the next payday the moment I'm paid, and that can feel disheartening.

Still, I’ve cleared over £2,600 since starting, and that’s something to be proud of. Progress, no matter how slow, is still progress.

RisingPhoenix1

£2,600 is amazing progress you should definitely be proud of that!

Lonelygambler

Paying of debt is boring. 

Not spending money is boring. 

However the impact is great. 

7 months without a gamble. 

Life is grinding on. 

LG