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  • westv
    westv Posts: 6,456 Forumite
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    Sea_Shell said:
    It's the little things I miss about work...

    Pencils, paperclips and Post-It notes.

    🤣
    Don't forget tippex, carbon copy paper and typewriters.  :D
  • Sarahspangles
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    sgx2000 said:
    I am going to miss sitting at work and trawling these forums...
    once I retire (hopefully shortly)
    I will have to sit at home and trawl these forums
    But with better coffee?
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  • jim8888
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    edited 3 April 2024 at 9:42PM
    sgx2000 said:
    A week in Devon in January … 3 weeks in India last month … Paris a couple of weeks ago … northern France in April … the northern belle a bit later in the month… Austria and Switzerland in May/June … sorry, kids, we’re spending it on us! Add in the bits of paid consultancy work and the many more bits of charity work (as in, it ain’t all me, me, me) and there are few days that are the same.  The weeds in the garden are having a whale of a time!

    It won’t last, as age and health will inevitably get in the way … hopefully, not for a while. We saved long and hard for this phase of our lives, so grabbing it while we can!
    I do not know how long you have been retired, but from what I have read ( and felt it a bit myself )that for many people the initial burst of holidays, DIY projects etc starts to wane in attraction after a couple of years.
    Then you start searching for a bit more purpose, or maybe just prefer sitting with your feet up !

    Everybody is different of course but apparently this two year thing is quite common.


    There is a TED Talk on youtube....
    I thinks its called the 4 stages of retirement....
    Interesting insight on the psychological aspects of retirement
    That TED talk was quite brutal in places, but realistic in my experience. Stage One is exactly like a holiday, real elation. But Stage Two, which I think a lot of people will suspect is coming, is as hard to deal with (for some) as this Doctor says it is. It was for me, and sent me back to full time work the first time I retired (aged 50). The second time I retired (aged 57) I went through Stage One and Two again, but this time I've taken part time work, which is working much better for me. I'd say that part time work has moved me into Stage Three and can help me plan for Stage Four. 
    One of the things that this thread demonstrates is that you have to keep a sense of humour and perspective about retirement. Yes, it can be quite an adjustment, but it allows you so much time to work on positive stuff that's important to you, which was something that the old boss almost never allowed!
  • barnstar2077
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    LHW99 said:
    As a cyclist myself, many bikes come with cheap thin saddles that are a bit wearing in places that should not be worn!  A wider, more comfortable, replacement saddle is always a good choice for an upgrade imo. 

    Used to be the so-called "gents saddles" were extremely narrow and hard - those for the "ladies" were much wider and better padded! :)
    I always thought too, but comfortable is comfortable! :  ) 
    Think first of your goal, then make it happen!
  • eastcorkram
    eastcorkram Posts: 911 Forumite
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    jim8888 said:
    sgx2000 said:
    A week in Devon in January … 3 weeks in India last month … Paris a couple of weeks ago … northern France in April … the northern belle a bit later in the month… Austria and Switzerland in May/June … sorry, kids, we’re spending it on us! Add in the bits of paid consultancy work and the many more bits of charity work (as in, it ain’t all me, me, me) and there are few days that are the same.  The weeds in the garden are having a whale of a time!

    It won’t last, as age and health will inevitably get in the way … hopefully, not for a while. We saved long and hard for this phase of our lives, so grabbing it while we can!
    I do not know how long you have been retired, but from what I have read ( and felt it a bit myself )that for many people the initial burst of holidays, DIY projects etc starts to wane in attraction after a couple of years.
    Then you start searching for a bit more purpose, or maybe just prefer sitting with your feet up !

    Everybody is different of course but apparently this two year thing is quite common.


    There is a TED Talk on youtube....
    I thinks its called the 4 stages of retirement....
    Interesting insight on the psychological aspects of retirement
    That TED talk was quite brutal in places, but realistic in my experience. Stage One is exactly like a holiday, real elation. But Stage Two, which I think a lot of people will suspect is coming, is as hard to deal with (for some) as this Doctor says it is. It was for me, and sent me back to full time work the first time I retired (aged 50). The second time I retired (aged 57) I went through Stage One and Two again, but this time I've taken part time work, which is working much better for me. I'd say that part time work has moved me into Stage Three and can help me plan for Stage Four. 
    One of the things that this thread demonstrates is that you have to keep a sense of humour and perspective about retirement. Yes, it can be quite an adjustment, but it allows you so much time to work on positive stuff that's important to you, which was something that the old boss almost never allowed!
    I have just watched that. I've a feeling, knowing myself, that I won't be entering phase 1, even for a day or two. I'll be straight into phase 2!
  • saucer
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    I’ve just looked at it. It’s what I would have expected and consistent with the understanding that we all need to feel useful in some way, or we get depressed. What makes us feel useful is going to vary a lot and might be volunteering for some, or answering forum threads for others. 
  • Sea_Shell
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    saucer said:
    I’ve just looked at it. It’s what I would have expected and consistent with the understanding that we all need to feel useful in some way, or we get depressed. What makes us feel useful is going to vary a lot and might be volunteering for some, or answering forum threads for others. 
    I am without use... other than on here.

    Even then, that's debatable 🤣🤣
    How's it going, AKA, Nutwatch? - 12 month spends to date = 2.60% of current retirement "pot" (as at end May 2025)
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