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I am going to miss sitting at work and trawling these forums...
once I retire (hopefully shortly)
I will have to sit at home and trawl these forums12 -
It's the little things I miss about work...
Pencils, paperclips and Post-It notes.
🤣How's it going, AKA, Nutwatch? - 12 month spends to date = 2.60% of current retirement "pot" (as at end May 2025)5 -
But with better coffee?sgx2000 said:I am going to miss sitting at work and trawling these forums...
once I retire (hopefully shortly)
I will have to sit at home and trawl these forumsFashion on the Ration
2024 - 43/66 coupons used, carry forward 23
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I ride twice a week to get in between 60-100 miles total, 25 years ago had a bike fit and it became apparent straightway that my knees were doing to much work, (seat 1cm too low and 2cm too far back) straight after the fit I could feel the benefit , the power was coming from my thighs and the knee pain disappeared for good, also had a seat fit where they sit you on a gel pad to mark sit bones, the comfort difference was immediateBostonerimus1 said:
Yes that's a common complaint which can be fixed with the right cycling shorts/pad, saddle and a bike fit. Also the more you ride your bike the more you will get use to it and the aches and pains lessen.Ganga said:
But i always find it hard on my bumBostonerimus1 said:
I will charge 1hr for the telecon and I think I said two sentences. Enjoying the bike ride or not depends on how much you like cycling. It's a great low impact way to keep fit so ideal for older folks as it's easy on the joints.sgx2000 said:
Apart from the bike rides & contract workBostonerimus1 said:8:00 am telecon with folks who employ me to do some some contract engineering.
Then 25 mile bike ride to a cafe (coffee, beef-jalepeno and horseradish cream sandwich, raspberry square) and 25 miles back home. Listened to "The Rest is History" podcasts on Martin Luther.
Afternoon spent re seeding bare spots on the lawn and sat down and drank two beers while I admired my work.
It sounds marvelous


, I've done lots of sports in my time and cycling as far and away the most expensive (too many bikes!!) but also the most enjoyable. Recently bought an e-gravel bike, just to get off the roads and onto rough bridleways in the hills and surprisingly when getting back on the lightweight road bike it's even easier to ride
"All lies and jest, still a man hears what he wants to hear and disregards the rest”5 -
That TED talk was quite brutal in places, but realistic in my experience. Stage One is exactly like a holiday, real elation. But Stage Two, which I think a lot of people will suspect is coming, is as hard to deal with (for some) as this Doctor says it is. It was for me, and sent me back to full time work the first time I retired (aged 50). The second time I retired (aged 57) I went through Stage One and Two again, but this time I've taken part time work, which is working much better for me. I'd say that part time work has moved me into Stage Three and can help me plan for Stage Four.sgx2000 said:
There is a TED Talk on youtube....Albermarle said:
I do not know how long you have been retired, but from what I have read ( and felt it a bit myself )that for many people the initial burst of holidays, DIY projects etc starts to wane in attraction after a couple of years.Steve_PL_too said:A week in Devon in January … 3 weeks in India last month … Paris a couple of weeks ago … northern France in April … the northern belle a bit later in the month… Austria and Switzerland in May/June … sorry, kids, we’re spending it on us! Add in the bits of paid consultancy work and the many more bits of charity work (as in, it ain’t all me, me, me) and there are few days that are the same. The weeds in the garden are having a whale of a time!It won’t last, as age and health will inevitably get in the way … hopefully, not for a while. We saved long and hard for this phase of our lives, so grabbing it while we can!
Then you start searching for a bit more purpose, or maybe just prefer sitting with your feet up !
Everybody is different of course but apparently this two year thing is quite common.
I thinks its called the 4 stages of retirement....
Interesting insight on the psychological aspects of retirement
One of the things that this thread demonstrates is that you have to keep a sense of humour and perspective about retirement. Yes, it can be quite an adjustment, but it allows you so much time to work on positive stuff that's important to you, which was something that the old boss almost never allowed!3 -
I always thought too, but comfortable is comfortable! : )LHW99 said:barnstar2077 said:As a cyclist myself, many bikes come with cheap thin saddles that are a bit wearing in places that should not be worn! A wider, more comfortable, replacement saddle is always a good choice for an upgrade imo.
Used to be the so-called "gents saddles" were extremely narrow and hard - those for the "ladies" were much wider and better padded!
Think first of your goal, then make it happen!1 -
I have just watched that. I've a feeling, knowing myself, that I won't be entering phase 1, even for a day or two. I'll be straight into phase 2!jim8888 said:
That TED talk was quite brutal in places, but realistic in my experience. Stage One is exactly like a holiday, real elation. But Stage Two, which I think a lot of people will suspect is coming, is as hard to deal with (for some) as this Doctor says it is. It was for me, and sent me back to full time work the first time I retired (aged 50). The second time I retired (aged 57) I went through Stage One and Two again, but this time I've taken part time work, which is working much better for me. I'd say that part time work has moved me into Stage Three and can help me plan for Stage Four.sgx2000 said:
There is a TED Talk on youtube....Albermarle said:
I do not know how long you have been retired, but from what I have read ( and felt it a bit myself )that for many people the initial burst of holidays, DIY projects etc starts to wane in attraction after a couple of years.Steve_PL_too said:A week in Devon in January … 3 weeks in India last month … Paris a couple of weeks ago … northern France in April … the northern belle a bit later in the month… Austria and Switzerland in May/June … sorry, kids, we’re spending it on us! Add in the bits of paid consultancy work and the many more bits of charity work (as in, it ain’t all me, me, me) and there are few days that are the same. The weeds in the garden are having a whale of a time!It won’t last, as age and health will inevitably get in the way … hopefully, not for a while. We saved long and hard for this phase of our lives, so grabbing it while we can!
Then you start searching for a bit more purpose, or maybe just prefer sitting with your feet up !
Everybody is different of course but apparently this two year thing is quite common.
I thinks its called the 4 stages of retirement....
Interesting insight on the psychological aspects of retirement
One of the things that this thread demonstrates is that you have to keep a sense of humour and perspective about retirement. Yes, it can be quite an adjustment, but it allows you so much time to work on positive stuff that's important to you, which was something that the old boss almost never allowed!1 -
I’ve just looked at it. It’s what I would have expected and consistent with the understanding that we all need to feel useful in some way, or we get depressed. What makes us feel useful is going to vary a lot and might be volunteering for some, or answering forum threads for others.1
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I am without use... other than on here.saucer said:I’ve just looked at it. It’s what I would have expected and consistent with the understanding that we all need to feel useful in some way, or we get depressed. What makes us feel useful is going to vary a lot and might be volunteering for some, or answering forum threads for others.
Even then, that's debatable 🤣🤣How's it going, AKA, Nutwatch? - 12 month spends to date = 2.60% of current retirement "pot" (as at end May 2025)4
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