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I use a combination of both. Credit card for large purposes which I then pay off straight away for the purchase protection. Debit card for Morrisons delivery. We live a 50 mile round trip from the nearest town so they do a click and collect twice a week at the village hall. I also use cash as in this area it is a necessity for: honesty boxes where we get eggs, veggies, jams etc for local events like the village fete which are all cash and for local small businesses which prefer cash. Lots of local shops have signs up saying they prefer cash. As for the wee man counting his coins for a beer how about a little humanity? Nobody with a few exceptions is in that much of a hurry that they can't display a little compassion and patience!
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MattMattMattUK said:weenancyinAmerica said:I suppose we are just going to have to get debit cards for the children to use on school events, transaction stations for those who sell eggs at home or the book people in Hay on Wye who put up stands along the alleys and give the homeless apps to use for accepting donations. But it would be hard to buy those poppies for Remembrance Day if everyone had to have a card reader or credit card for those.
Poppy sellers have had card readers for years, in general it encourages people to give more, I tend to pay five or ten pounds and most people I know seem to do the same.
My children's schools are also cash only, the eldest child's school tried to insist on card payments, until a number of parents took the matter to the board of governors and a solicitor informed them they weren't allowed to enforce this in a school. Especially when many parents didn't have credit cards and didn't want to share their debit card details with the school. Because cash is legal tender, they weren't allowed to refuse cash. Especially if a parent needed to pay £2.65 for a school dinner one day.
Regarding the older population using technology, my parents and elderly family members and neighbours don't use mobile phones, tablets. Some don't even have the Internet.
When it comes to my mum and aunt renewing insurance for cars, house insurance or travel insurance they do it via telephone, or at the post office.
I myself renew my car and house insurance via the phone.
My neighbours etc order their oil via telephone, their prescriptions etc. Doctors, dentist, opticians all done via phone also.
And yes, we still have our house phones a d use them daily also.
Just becuase "data" says something different doesn't mean it's and factual..... a lot of data is fixed to that companies/persons own requirements.Pay all debt off by Christmas 2025 £815.45/£3,000£1 a day challenge 2025 - £180/£730 Declutter a bag a week in 2025 11/52Lose 25lb - 10/25lbs Read 1 book per week - 5/52Pay off credit card debt 18%/100%3 -
Way back in the mid 90s my boss had a plan to provide a digital service. Staff protested that the customer base for this particular service was overwhelmingly retired and therefore unfamiliar with technology. We did a survey, turned out that the ´elderly’ customers were way more technically savvy than the staff.6
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IrishRose12 said:MattMattMattUK said:weenancyinAmerica said:I suppose we are just going to have to get debit cards for the children to use on school events, transaction stations for those who sell eggs at home or the book people in Hay on Wye who put up stands along the alleys and give the homeless apps to use for accepting donations. But it would be hard to buy those poppies for Remembrance Day if everyone had to have a card reader or credit card for those.
Poppy sellers have had card readers for years, in general it encourages people to give more, I tend to pay five or ten pounds and most people I know seem to do the same.
My children's schools are also cash only, the eldest child's school tried to insist on card payments, until a number of parents took the matter to the board of governors and a solicitor informed them they weren't allowed to enforce this in a school. Especially when many parents didn't have credit cards and didn't want to share their debit card details with the school. Because cash is legal tender, they weren't allowed to refuse cash. Especially if a parent needed to pay £2.65 for a school dinner one day.
Regarding the older population using technology, my parents and elderly family members and neighbours don't use mobile phones, tablets. Some don't even have the Internet.
When it comes to my mum and aunt renewing insurance for cars, house insurance or travel insurance they do it via telephone, or at the post office.
I myself renew my car and house insurance via the phone.
My neighbours etc order their oil via telephone, their prescriptions etc. Doctors, dentist, opticians all done via phone also.
And yes, we still have our house phones a d use them daily also.
Just becuase "data" says something different doesn't mean it's and factual..... a lot of data is fixed to that companies/persons own requirements.Wonder why they have decided to never offer parents a choice?Cash isn't necessarily legal tenderWhat does the data comment mean?
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IrishRose12 said:
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eldest child's school tried to insist on card payments, until a number of parents took the matter to the board of governors and a solicitor informed them they weren't allowed to enforce this in a school. . . . Because cash is legal tender, they weren't allowed to refuse cash. . . .
Cash is legal tender - for paying debts, not simply for buying things.8 -
My children when they were at school, which is a while ago used cards. It actually was a really good system. I sent in a cheque, it went onto their accounts and they used the card to pay for their dinner. I then got to see what they had spent the money on. What was especially good was the children on free school meals were not visible at all. Same card.
We used cash for our school dinners at school. I regularly pocketed the cash and went hungry and the cash was used for some magazines or other illicit stuff at the weekend.4 -
MattMattMattUK said:leftatthetrafficlights said:MattMattMattUK said:leftatthetrafficlights said:MattMattMattUK said:IrishRose12 said:weenancyinAmerica said:I think a person's age has a lot to do with the answers we are getting. Young people seem to only want a card society. Older people are afraid of a card only society. I wonder if a study has been done on how this card society affects charity giving as some of the answers sound like they don't give anything away to others. I see a card only society becoming very self-centered and lacking in empathy and it worries me.
Most people where I live are also going back to using cash, both young and old. Another 2 shops this week have put signs up in our local area stating they are only accepting cash from now on in.
The data also shows that the vast majority of transactions both by volume and value are on card and that is still growing, although some people seem to have an aversion to card payments and are getting quite vocal about their demands to use cash or go elsewhere the businesses response is generally to let them go, cash is just not worth the cost or hassle.leftatthetrafficlights said:
I'm confused as to why you feel that accepting cash is more costly to the retailer - I used to own a retail business and having a card machine meant I paid the bank a monthly fee plus a percentage of each transaction; cash was bagged up and deposited for free....definitely preferable for me and my profit margin!
For card payments a small business will be looking at no monthly fee and around 1.2% transaction fee on a credit card, for debit cards it can be as low as 20p per transaction, large businesses will be paying less than one percent.leftatthetrafficlights said:
I buy predominantly ethically produced products that cost considerably more than the standard off the shelf equivalents cost and boycott certain producers - that doesn't mean that I'm not money saving or irrational,leftatthetrafficlights said:
my journey.leftatthetrafficlights said:From having a quick mooch on the internet, the average bank cash handling charge is around 50p per £100 deposited - so while I acknowledge that things have changed since I owned my business, I would disagree that it's more expensive for a small business to accept cash -leftatthetrafficlights said:
depending on the types of goods sold, 20p per transaction would certainly have a negative impact on profits.DNF: £708.92/£1000
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General_Grant said:IrishRose12 said:
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eldest child's school tried to insist on card payments, until a number of parents took the matter to the board of governors and a solicitor informed them they weren't allowed to enforce this in a school. . . . Because cash is legal tender, they weren't allowed to refuse cash. . . .
Cash is legal tender - for paying debts, not simply for buying things.
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@MattMattMattUK - I agree about the veteran poppy sellers, it encourages me to buy more merch and donate on top of that.
@zaxdog - If I lived in the sticks I too would be keeping a wad of notes and a stash of coins for unexpected expenditure.
@JIL - I used to do the same with school dinner money, which I had on Tuesdays only! If I bought anything at all it would be a slice of chocolate cake and a glass of green fizz (ie the kind of stuff that should be banned). My parents never knew what I ate because they never asked. They were busy earning a wage to pay for bills and put food on the table in the evenings.
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bouicca21 said:Way back in the mid 90s my boss had a plan to provide a digital service. Staff protested that the customer base for this particular service was overwhelmingly retired and therefore unfamiliar with technology. We did a survey, turned out that the ´elderly’ customers were way more technically savvy than the staff.
She's just told me she needs a new ipad and has asked me to help her make sure she gets the right one, but she's pretty clear what she needs - she just wants her choice validated.
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