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  • cerebus
    cerebus Posts: 677 Forumite
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    textbook said:
    cerebus said:
    I take this to be both OP's and the other party's phones:
     I contacted a specialist and he said he'll charge me $100 to purchase software called LOG'S and software send him both numbers and he'll delete it, anyone know about this?


    Thats a monster assumption given that message doesn't make sense , it's from a scammer and that's the first time the op has mentioned two numbers (well actually he hasn't the scammer has)

    We need the op to clarify however he has hardly been upfront with his reasons why he's desperate to delete a message that is now weeks old, so I fear we will never know 


    Well, you made the assumption the OP is having an affair !  But the reason for deletion isn't really relevant. There should be no problem with OP deleting a message from own phone, regardless of how old the message is.  Being unable to delete a message more than 2 days old only applies to 'Delete for everyone' which suggests the OP's concern is with deleting a message from the other person's phone.
    Of course, I want to delete the message from the other phone
    Well I'll admit I read that wrong....

    Op you need the other phone then no other way to do it , and please don't part with your hard earned to scammers who say they can do it , they can't.

    All they will say is that they have done it and you won't know otherwise  , its hardly like you can ask the other person if the message has gone!
  • GingerTim
    GingerTim Posts: 2,615 Forumite
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    edited 19 February 2024 at 7:30AM
    textbook said:
    cerebus said:
    I take this to be both OP's and the other party's phones:
     I contacted a specialist and he said he'll charge me $100 to purchase software called LOG'S and software send him both numbers and he'll delete it, anyone know about this?


    Thats a monster assumption given that message doesn't make sense , it's from a scammer and that's the first time the op has mentioned two numbers (well actually he hasn't the scammer has)

    We need the op to clarify however he has hardly been upfront with his reasons why he's desperate to delete a message that is now weeks old, so I fear we will never know 


    Well, you made the assumption the OP is having an affair !  But the reason for deletion isn't really relevant. There should be no problem with OP deleting a message from own phone, regardless of how old the message is.  Being unable to delete a message more than 2 days old only applies to 'Delete for everyone' which suggests the OP's concern is with deleting a message from the other person's phone.
    Of course, I want to delete the message from the other phone
    Well, unfortunately you aren't going to be able to do that without asking the recipient to delete it as well, or by having physical access to their phone.
  • Wonka_2
    Wonka_2 Posts: 897 Forumite
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    GingerTim said:
    textbook said:
    cerebus said:
    I take this to be both OP's and the other party's phones:
     I contacted a specialist and he said he'll charge me $100 to purchase software called LOG'S and software send him both numbers and he'll delete it, anyone know about this?


    Thats a monster assumption given that message doesn't make sense , it's from a scammer and that's the first time the op has mentioned two numbers (well actually he hasn't the scammer has)

    We need the op to clarify however he has hardly been upfront with his reasons why he's desperate to delete a message that is now weeks old, so I fear we will never know 


    Well, you made the assumption the OP is having an affair !  But the reason for deletion isn't really relevant. There should be no problem with OP deleting a message from own phone, regardless of how old the message is.  Being unable to delete a message more than 2 days old only applies to 'Delete for everyone' which suggests the OP's concern is with deleting a message from the other person's phone.
    Of course, I want to delete the message from the other phone
    Well, unfortunately you aren't going to be able to do that without asking the recipient to delete it as well, or by having physical access to their phone.
    And depending on the content/context of the message then there may well be screenshots of it that negate any benefit of deleting it.

    @textbook for those of use with a nosey disposition are you going to enlighten us to the content/reason for wanting it deleting ?
  • Wonka_2 said:
    GingerTim said:
    textbook said:
    cerebus said:
    I take this to be both OP's and the other party's phones:
     I contacted a specialist and he said he'll charge me $100 to purchase software called LOG'S and software send him both numbers and he'll delete it, anyone know about this?


    Thats a monster assumption given that message doesn't make sense , it's from a scammer and that's the first time the op has mentioned two numbers (well actually he hasn't the scammer has)

    We need the op to clarify however he has hardly been upfront with his reasons why he's desperate to delete a message that is now weeks old, so I fear we will never know 


    Well, you made the assumption the OP is having an affair !  But the reason for deletion isn't really relevant. There should be no problem with OP deleting a message from own phone, regardless of how old the message is.  Being unable to delete a message more than 2 days old only applies to 'Delete for everyone' which suggests the OP's concern is with deleting a message from the other person's phone.
    Of course, I want to delete the message from the other phone
    Well, unfortunately you aren't going to be able to do that without asking the recipient to delete it as well, or by having physical access to their phone.
    And depending on the content/context of the message then there may well be screenshots of it that negate any benefit of deleting it.

    @textbook for those of use with a nosey disposition are you going to enlighten us to the content/reason for wanting it deleting ?


    So I gave someone my address who I really don't want to have it.   They may come round to my place and cause trouble.   The 'professional' hacker I was recommended to was on a forum.  $100 for that software I listed earlier to remove it, dunno what to do
  • LightFlare
    LightFlare Posts: 1,467 Forumite
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    textbook said:
    Wonka_2 said:
    GingerTim said:
    textbook said:
    cerebus said:
    I take this to be both OP's and the other party's phones:
     I contacted a specialist and he said he'll charge me $100 to purchase software called LOG'S and software send him both numbers and he'll delete it, anyone know about this?


    Thats a monster assumption given that message doesn't make sense , it's from a scammer and that's the first time the op has mentioned two numbers (well actually he hasn't the scammer has)

    We need the op to clarify however he has hardly been upfront with his reasons why he's desperate to delete a message that is now weeks old, so I fear we will never know 


    Well, you made the assumption the OP is having an affair !  But the reason for deletion isn't really relevant. There should be no problem with OP deleting a message from own phone, regardless of how old the message is.  Being unable to delete a message more than 2 days old only applies to 'Delete for everyone' which suggests the OP's concern is with deleting a message from the other person's phone.
    Of course, I want to delete the message from the other phone
    Well, unfortunately you aren't going to be able to do that without asking the recipient to delete it as well, or by having physical access to their phone.
    And depending on the content/context of the message then there may well be screenshots of it that negate any benefit of deleting it.

    @textbook for those of use with a nosey disposition are you going to enlighten us to the content/reason for wanting it deleting ?


    So I gave someone my address who I really don't want to have it.   They may come round to my place and cause trouble.   The 'professional' hacker I was recommended to was on a forum.  $100 for that software I listed earlier to remove it, dunno what to do
    I certainly wouldn't engage with anyone offering to undertake illegal activities on a public forum.

    At best you will lose $100 -- at worst, the other party having your address will be the least of your problems
  • Olinda99
    Olinda99 Posts: 2,042 Forumite
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    they could easily have written it down in their address book by now anyway
  • "written it down" ?    "address book" ?

    Select all, Copy, Paste. 
  • cerebus
    cerebus Posts: 677 Forumite
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    Why would you give your address to someone you didn't want to and is probably a scammer? Use a fake address if you must! Do not send this guy any money!

    The crux of this is you sent a message you now regret and want to delete it , YOU sent the message so if and when there is any fall out , you will have to act like a grown up and deal with it, I would start by apologising 

    Oh and next time think before you send any messages in future 
  • GingerTim
    GingerTim Posts: 2,615 Forumite
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    textbook said:
    Wonka_2 said:
    GingerTim said:
    textbook said:
    cerebus said:
    I take this to be both OP's and the other party's phones:
     I contacted a specialist and he said he'll charge me $100 to purchase software called LOG'S and software send him both numbers and he'll delete it, anyone know about this?


    Thats a monster assumption given that message doesn't make sense , it's from a scammer and that's the first time the op has mentioned two numbers (well actually he hasn't the scammer has)

    We need the op to clarify however he has hardly been upfront with his reasons why he's desperate to delete a message that is now weeks old, so I fear we will never know 


    Well, you made the assumption the OP is having an affair !  But the reason for deletion isn't really relevant. There should be no problem with OP deleting a message from own phone, regardless of how old the message is.  Being unable to delete a message more than 2 days old only applies to 'Delete for everyone' which suggests the OP's concern is with deleting a message from the other person's phone.
    Of course, I want to delete the message from the other phone
    Well, unfortunately you aren't going to be able to do that without asking the recipient to delete it as well, or by having physical access to their phone.
    And depending on the content/context of the message then there may well be screenshots of it that negate any benefit of deleting it.

    @textbook for those of use with a nosey disposition are you going to enlighten us to the content/reason for wanting it deleting ?


    So I gave someone my address who I really don't want to have it.   They may come round to my place and cause trouble.   The 'professional' hacker I was recommended to was on a forum.  $100 for that software I listed earlier to remove it, dunno what to do
    Very easy answer - do not give this scammer money.
  • Olinda99
    Olinda99 Posts: 2,042 Forumite
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    "written it down" ?    "address book" ?

    Select all, Copy, Paste. 
    my fountain pen doesn't have the copy/paste function !
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