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Bold leap into retirement
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Do others think similarly to me that when you know you are on a glide-slope countdown to retirement - in my case ideally another 12-16 months - I have just lost all interest in work? I work in IT and I remain professional as I can, but I just can't help but keep thinking what's the point in learning a ton of new stuff if I'm finishing soon anyway. Do others feel this way?12
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MetaPhysical said:Do others think similarly to me that when you know you are on a glide-slope countdown to retirement - in my case ideally another 12-16 months - I have just lost all interest in work? I work in IT and I remain professional as I can, but I just can't help but keep thinking what's the point in learning a ton of new stuff if I'm finishing soon anyway. Do others feel this way?I’m a Senior Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Pensions, Annuities & Retirement Planning, Loans
& Credit Cards boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com.
All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.7 -
MetaPhysical said:Do others think similarly to me that when you know you are on a glide-slope countdown to retirement - in my case ideally another 12-16 months - I have just lost all interest in work? I work in IT and I remain professional as I can, but I just can't help but keep thinking what's the point in learning a ton of new stuff if I'm finishing soon anyway. Do others feel this way?
If I wake at 2 am worrying about work, I try to daydream about what the first day, week, year of retirement will be like. To give me something positive to focus on. As a result I’ve just replaced some craft stuff I gave away during lockdown, but now I’m wishing I could start using it immediately.Fashion on the Ration
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I am seriously lacking in motivation these days. I ensure my job gets done, yes. But in terms of reading and fathoming out stuff out of work hours that at one time I was so happy to do, these days I've quiet quitted.5
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I know exactly how you feel @MetaPhysical, I’m conscientiously doing everything that’s expected of me, but I’ve stepped back from all the additional jobs I somehow took on. I’ve also exited most of the work groups on WhatsApp and Teams, which has really helped with the amount of ‘noise’ I was receiving.
I am aiming to be in a position where I will just check my emails first thing, lunchtime and at the end of the day for the last 2 months (May & June).
@handful, it’s so good to hear from you from out the other side. I’m so pleased to hear that you are having such a great time. It won’t be long before I’ll be joining you!I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Pension, Debt Free Wanabee, and Over 50 Money Saving boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the Report button, or by e-mailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.6 -
I do enjoy this thread, very interesting to see other people's comments in similar versions / situations.I'm now counting in weeks rather than months as I'm finishing end of May. There are still moments of the "will this be ok" but overall I'm very calm and feel it is the right thing for me to do.I've seen the occasional article in the press about "You must have £XXXXXX to retire" and have had to remind myself that the journalist's figure is an average, or maybe invented, and actually I will need less than that. Heading towards the final payday / final bonus etc does feel a bit odd at times though !While I've got some ideas about what to do with my time once I stop work, I'm purposefully giving myself 3 months off - that is, 3 months after I finish work, where I don't want to book up any definite / regular commitments, or take on any form of work (even volunteering). I feel I need some time to decompress and regain energy, before deciding what new areas to take on.8
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MetaPhysical said:Do others think similarly to me that when you know you are on a glide-slope countdown to retirement - in my case ideally another 12-16 months - I have just lost all interest in work? I work in IT and I remain professional as I can, but I just can't help but keep thinking what's the point in learning a ton of new stuff if I'm finishing soon anyway. Do others feel this way?0
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Daffodil1234 said:I've seen the occasional article in the press about "You must have £XXXXXX to retire" and have had to remind myself that the journalist's figure is an average, or maybe invented, and actually I will need less than that. Heading towards the final payday / final bonus etc does feel a bit odd at times though !7
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I'm hoping to be at a retirement income around the £45-50k mark at age 58 taken from roughly from 50% indexed linked DB and 50% DC funds (£600k-ish). No mortgage and some cash to draw on in market downturns where I might want to go lightly on the DC fund.
Again, I want to continue to be professional in what I do but my heart is no longer at the workplace in a way it once was. I've been at work for over 40 years now, have had many personal issues to contend with and a new chapter awaits me.4 -
I can totally relate to your post MetaPhysical. Mentally I think I am in a similar position to you, financially I'm not as have no DB pension, so I'm trying to keep going for a little longer, however I'm finding it challenging, for a number of different reasons.It's just my opinion and not advice.4
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