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  • beanielou
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    Hurrah for heating.

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    edited 11 November at 3:11PM

    Hurrah for heating, but pah boo sucks (in lieu of the forum allowing anything stronger) to the idiot in the street. As nice as it might have been to turn round and reply with something akin to "and the same to you with knobs on, sir" it was probably the wiser choice to let it go. If someone is unhinged enough to say something like that to a stranger, the less engagement with them, the better!

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  • Blackcats
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    What a horrid stranger in the street.

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    Yes, what an absolute cheek. If it had been me in receipt of that comment, I like to think I'd also have been sensible enough to let it go, but I don't know. Either someone with Tourette's or, as you say, an incel-ly type. If the latter, one wonders why he would be under the impression that sort of behaviour would improve his chance of finding a girlfriend. Call me picky, PiP, but being called a highly offensive, misogynistic word has never featured on my list of what I'm looking for in a man!

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  • PennysIntoPounds
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    In the moment my brain reacted by calling out 'you too!' in a cheery voice like he'd wished me happy Christmas while my legs kept walking away 😂

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  • Sun_Addict
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    Glad your heating is finally fixed.

    What a horrid man unless of course he does have Tourette's - you just never know. I remember watching a TV documentary about a young lad with it and he couldn't stop himself calling random women in the street unpleasant names.

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  • PennysIntoPounds
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    Sadly I think there are more incels than people with tourettes these days @Sun_Addict, I still often think about that man a couple of years ago who went out of his way to swerve into my path on the street so he could bodily smash into me and look delighted with his massive self for hurting a random much smaller woman. Still, if this man did have tourettes I hope my cheery response brought a smile

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    Norf property prices are stoopid. Assume that if you find that £1.5 m you'll be able to get a nice 2 bed flat? Parsons Green is my favourite place sarf of the river. I've scrolled through right move and realistically disregarded the £23m house and found a 2 bed maisonette just reduced to £1.5m. I'll save on travel costs to The Bridge though so it would probably be a MSE choice. 🥴

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