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An in-between phase

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  • beanielou
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    Glad that discussion is underway.

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  • beanielou
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    Lovely news on your candle.

    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

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    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

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  • jwil
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    Great result with the candles!

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  • foxgloves
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    @PennysIntoPounds,

    As in real life, the weirdos also found me when I used to sell on ebay. I always described my items very fully to mitigate this. I once received the following feedback about a top:

    "Item is unwearable, but is exactly as described by the seller".

    Eh?? Unpick that one if you can!

    F x

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    2) To read 50 books (12/50) 3) The Re-Shrinking of Foxgloves 8.1kg/30kg
    Remember....if you have to put it on a credit card, extend your overdraft or take out a loan to buy whatever it is, you probably can't afford it, as that's not your money, it's somebody else's!
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 99,321 Ambassador
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    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** in ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger.
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan. 19months left.
  • PennysIntoPounds
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    Thanks @beanielou and @jwil, they were so nicely packaged in environmentally friendly stuff too, and smell gorgeous. Such a treat. Just the thought of them has been bringing down my blood pressure this week!

    Oh dear @foxgloves That is very on-brand for you! 😂

    I'm also really diligent in my listings and having full five star rating for over a hundred buyers I would think reflects that, so if she wants to get huffy in a review because I chose the resolution option of her paying postage to return it, then I will completely (politely) respond that it was in the size that was listed. I guess some people haven't yet got their heads around 'randoms selling pre-owned items online are not shops'

    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6466032/an-in-between-phase/p1

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  • liselle
    liselle Posts: 292 Forumite
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    A woman tried on a coat I was selling at a Car Boot, it was really tight on he.She looked in the mirror and asked the size.When I said 12, she said, Oh I’ll have it, it fits nicely……!!

  • Sun_Addict
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    And this is exactly why I don’t sell anything via Vinted or eBay. When I sold a few bits on eBay in the past, despite saying I didn’t ship overseas, I got into a dispute with someone from Italy who wanted to buy one of my items. She bid on it and wouldn’t let it go. Eventually we came to an agreement with the shipping but it has put me off for life. Just not worth the hassle.

    I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)
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