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An in-between phase

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  • doingitanyway
    doingitanyway Posts: 10,925 Forumite
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    What sort of gate? Is it a security gate?

    If you have built castles in the air, your work should not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundations under them

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  • Rhyddid2026
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    Not at the moment, but if security becomes and issue it's something we can discuss again at that point?

    Orrrr…. tell her to crack on and pay for it if she wants it so bad 😂

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  • It sounds like something that will end up costing more as you add up all the things, a regular gate and a video doorbell should suffice if she's that worried?

    I see a lot of broken access doors, the maintenance on them must be horrendous.

  • Slowdown
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    Maybe 3k includes a bowler hatted attendant such as found at the entrance to an Oxford College? If so, possibly worth it. He could offer said bowler to anyone requiring urgent urination facilities to avoid spillages on your drive.

  • Watty1
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    I like those electric gates and sophisticated AI systems that "announced arrivals" and then I think of the maintenance issues same would involve and stick with the current system on back drive - which is a five bar gate which has a chain around it for security reasons at night.

    I'm rural and have had "issues" in past so I got a chain that cannot be cut with bolt croppers and a substantial padlock but I'm sure a simple gate that locked could be got very inexpensively.

    Rhyddid2026 answer is super - and you could add that if we install later we could look at solar systems to power it which would be a cost saving in long run?

    Made it to mortgage free but what a muddle that became

    In the event the proverbial hits the fan then co-habitees are better stashing their cash than being mortgage free !!
  • maybe I’m incorrectly assuming that it’d be Wi-Fi enabled but, if so, what if that goes down.

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  • if its a shared security gate how would you know which house should answer it and give the OK for someone to enter.?

    You might be letting someone in who they do not want to see 😂

  • foxgloves
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    Well m'dear, you've still done about 46 things more than me!

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