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My boss does not want me to have operation.
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FireRetire98 said:Sounds like dodgy behaviour. Make sure to try and document all conversations with your boss even if it’s just talking in person, make notes of what the said and when you had the convo etc. hopefully you won’t need legal help but this will help if you do
Therefore simply not turning up after your boss has declined your request for time off will be being AWOL and gross missconduct in most companies. Most reasonable employers will allow time off for medical procedures with reasonable notice etc but lets be realistic, even the most understanding of employers may be put in a really difficult position if they've already given permission of holidays to others, have some on long term sick, some on compassionate leave and then you appear asking for time off as well.
If you get a fit note saying you are too sick to work then that's a different matter... technically an employer can challenge it but its fairly rare1 -
Don’t consider postponing for 1 second. If the NHS is going to treat you before the Junior Doctors strike then get in there and get it sorted. Any indication of a date in September is pure speculation they will be trying to catch up for months following the strike.4
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Agree with the others of keeping track of all communications about this, all manager's replies (or noting that there was no reply despite repeated reminders). Def have a copy of the medical letters, fit notes etc to the manager in advance where possible.
Worst case scenario they decide it's gross misconduct and dismiss you (which is unlikely if they are short staffed) then you'll have your evidence for an employment tribunal.
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DullGreyGuy said:You have no statutory right for time off for medical procedures in the UKCorrect me if I'm wrong, but I think you're over interpreting this bit of advice.You're not legally entitled to attend medical appointments in work hours, but if you're not well enough to work you are entitled to sick leave (and may be entitled to sick pay).After an operation, I believe the recovery period in which you are not fit for work would be covered under sickness absence, rather than considered an extended medical appointment.
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clive0510 said:thanks for the replys. I am going ahead with it on 6th july, and I will be emailing my boss on monday. I can appreciate why he dosen't want me to have it. at the end of the day I work for a small firm which like a lot of private company's is run on a shoe string.
the other thing is I'm 62 on monday. and financially I have no worries, so it wouldn't matter to me if waved my 8-5.30 job goodbye. if I have to I will.2 -
Universidad said:DullGreyGuy said:You have no statutory right for time off for medical procedures in the UKCorrect me if I'm wrong, but I think you're over interpreting this bit of advice.You're not legally entitled to attend medical appointments in work hours, but if you're not well enough to work you are entitled to sick leave (and may be entitled to sick pay).After an operation, I believe the recovery period in which you are not fit for work would be covered under sickness absence, rather than considered an extended medical appointment.6
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I cannot believe such an employer! Look after your health. Last year I was having dizzy spells. Tried to be a good employee and ignore it. Boss insisted I saw a doctor. I did. Found out I have terminal cancer. I am now retired,and my boss has been kind and generous.Look after your health before work,please.7
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Pat38493 said:Universidad said:DullGreyGuy said:You have no statutory right for time off for medical procedures in the UKCorrect me if I'm wrong, but I think you're over interpreting this bit of advice.You're not legally entitled to attend medical appointments in work hours, but if you're not well enough to work you are entitled to sick leave (and may be entitled to sick pay).After an operation, I believe the recovery period in which you are not fit for work would be covered under sickness absence, rather than considered an extended medical appointment.
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This is Dickensian!
We're in the 21st century not the Victorian age and you're not supposed to put up with being ill.
Talk to your union rep if there's any further hassle.
If your organisation doesn't have a union rep, it sounds very much like they need one.There is no honour to be had in not knowing a thing that can be known - Danny Baker2
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