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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,742 Ambassador
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    satchmo1 said:
    So sorry about your DH being in hospital. Was it a workplace accident? If so, I'd be phoning the employer and stating that you need them to resolve your visiting difficulties. It's the least they could do!! 
    Good idea. 
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  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 29,087 Forumite
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    Thinking of you all
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £171.8K Equity 36.37%
    2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 10/10/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £27.9K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.25K) = 34/£127.5K target 26.6% 10/10/25
    (If took bigger lump sum = 60.35K or 47.6%)
    4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise) (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
    5) SIPP £5K updated 10/10/25
  • EssexHebridean
    EssexHebridean Posts: 24,717 Forumite
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    Oh jwil what a worrying time for you all - I do hope that Mr J is home by now and recuperating. 
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    Balance as at 01/09/23 = £115,000.00 Balance as at 31/12/23 = £112,000.00
    Balance as at 31/08/24 = £105,400.00 Balance as at 31/12/24 = £102,500.00
    Balance as at 31/08/25 = £ 95,450.00
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  • jwil
    jwil Posts: 22,492 Forumite
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    Thank you everyone :)  I appreciate the messages.  We've just got home thankfully.  It's good to have him home!  The dog was so excited to see him, she's been so anxious the last few days not knowing what's going on, and being left alone so much!  

    He's got to go back later in the week, and there will be repeat visits for a few weeks probably, but as long as they are day visits, then that's ok!

    I've coped with the driving, I'll never enjoy it, but I know that I can do it, and in reality I build it up into a bigger thing than it is.  My anxiety is through the roof so hopefully we can have a bit of quiet time to try and relax.  I've either eaten nothing, or survived on the odd chocolate bar most days since Thursday, so it will do me good to have some proper food again.
    "Good financial planning is about not spending money on things that add no value to your life in order to have more money for the things that do". Eoin McGee
  • jwil
    jwil Posts: 22,492 Forumite
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    I haven't done much else over the last few days, but I have continued with my PADs.

    Today's PAD - £2

    Jan - £141
    Feb - £139
    March - £89
    April £149
    May - £79
    June - £270
    July - £253
    August - £173
    September - £120
    October - £4
    "Good financial planning is about not spending money on things that add no value to your life in order to have more money for the things that do". Eoin McGee
  • jwil
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    edited 2 October 2023 at 5:39PM
    End of month update:

    Debts:
    1. £3,500/ £3,434
    2. £4,562/ £4,477

    Total: £8,062/£7,911

    Mortgage - £96,177.49/ £88,271.07

    Savings:
    LISA: £1,272.70 / £1,657.58
    Premium bonds £1,025 / £3,200
    Other savings 1: £0/ £450
    Other savings 2: £0/£250

    Retirement countdown: £122,984.48 / £107,628.64
    "Good financial planning is about not spending money on things that add no value to your life in order to have more money for the things that do". Eoin McGee
  • badmemory
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    Driving when you are stressed is rarely much fun even if you like driving.  So well done for coping.  So amazing what we can deal with when we need to isn't it.
  • jwil
    jwil Posts: 22,492 Forumite
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    Declutter update:

    958. Lego
    959. Playmobil car
    960-963. Tractors
    964-966. Cars
    967. Model kit
    968. Train
    969. Car
    970. Fire engine
    971-974. Shoes
    975. Dress
    976. Blanket
    977-979. Socks



    Declutter totals: 
    Magazines/papers: 97
    Other: 979

    Total: 1076

    Ebay listings: 173
    Ebay parcels: 129


    Survey/other earnings:
    Amazon: £50
    Paypal/cash: £394.79
    Other vouchers:£0
    "Good financial planning is about not spending money on things that add no value to your life in order to have more money for the things that do". Eoin McGee
  • jwil
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    badmemory said:
    Driving when you are stressed is rarely much fun even if you like driving.  So well done for coping.  So amazing what we can deal with when we need to isn't it.
    Thank you.  Yes, it is always amazing how much we can really handle.
    "Good financial planning is about not spending money on things that add no value to your life in order to have more money for the things that do". Eoin McGee
  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 29,087 Forumite
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    So pleased for you all that your DH is home.

    Impressive totals too.
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £171.8K Equity 36.37%
    2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 10/10/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £27.9K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.25K) = 34/£127.5K target 26.6% 10/10/25
    (If took bigger lump sum = 60.35K or 47.6%)
    4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise) (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
    5) SIPP £5K updated 10/10/25
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