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The Mental Debt Struggle...

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  • daisy_1571
    daisy_1571 Posts: 2,672 Forumite
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    popping a book or two into your bag will remind you (by the weight) every time you pass any place you can drop them off.  A couple won't overload where you drop them but if done consistently will diminish your home pile 

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  • daisy_1571
    daisy_1571 Posts: 2,672 Forumite
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    Or take some into work and leave them in the kitchen/break room ?
    22: 3🏅 4⭐ 23: 5🏅 6 ⭐ 24 1🏅 2⭐ 25 🏅 🥈2⭐ Never save something for a special occasion. Every day is a special occasion. The diff between what you were yesterday and what you will be tomorrow is what you do today Well organised clutter is still clutter - Joshua Becker If you aren't already using something you won't start using it more by shoving it in a cupboard- AJMoney The barrier standing between you & what youre truly capable of isnt lack of info, ideas or techniques. The secret is 'do it'
  • Keedie
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    Happy New Year everyone 🎉.

    I've not been feeling very well and so I have not been able to work today and don't think I will manage tomorrow either. So that puts a spanner in my income plans for this month. But as they say, health before wealth.

    Whilst on recurring bed rest, I have had the time to think a lot about my financial and life goals. I am trying to keep things as simple as I can. Less is more after all:
    1. Save 3 months expenses = £6,000 (£2,000 per month)
    2. Track my spending throughout the year (this will enable me to see if I have the correct sinking funds and budget categories and how much/where I am spending)
    3. Repay £1,500 to my mum for my course fees (this is half of the £
    Goal 1 ~ 3 Month's Expenses (£6,000)
    I have reduced the monthly target from £2,500 a month to £2,000 a month as that is the actual monthly budget. When I have a 6 months of expenses, I will review it and see if I want to save a contingency fund. The additional £500 a month was a buffer against price increases. But for now it is not necessary.

    Currently I have £3,00 in my Natwest Digital Saver and £1,800 in my Help to Save, so £3,100 digitally and £150 in cash. So £3,250 and just over halfway to the overall target for the year.

    Goal 2 ~ Expense Tracking (weekly but preferably daily)
    I need to finish designing my expenses tracker on Excel. I realised that I was having trouble with the ones I brought on Etsy etc, as they didn't fully fit what I was doing and how I budget, so I am creating my own. I've got it all scribbled out layout wise in my savings planner, but I have not created anything or added formulas etc as yet.

    Goal 3 ~ Career Advance Repayment (£1,500)
    I have two savings challenge that will enable me to save £1,350 and the rest I will obtain once I have completed smaller savings challenges

    I have managed to pay off the Argos Card which was £509.45 and I have put about £600 into savings as my mum gave us all very generous Christmas gifts. My friend also called me the other day to say that the money I lent her quite a while ago, will be repaid to me within the next few months. So when that comes through, I will put it towards the savings challenges to repay my mum.

    I also need to work out my mental health and home goals as well. The decluttering is very slow. My son and I have put things in the majority of the tubs I brought from Argos. We just have a few more bags of random things to go through and then we should be ready for our first dump site trip.
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  • AntoMac
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    Health before wealth is spot on Keedie. After all, health is priceless so look after your good self as much as you can.
    It seems like a lot of your savings plans are on track. Of course there’s always room for improvement/progress but you have specific targets which will help with focus
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  • beanielou
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    Always health before wealth.  Hope you feel better soon.
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  • Baileys_Babe
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    Happy New Year @Keedie

    I hope you feel better soon.

    Excellent progress on your declutter mission.
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  • Humdinger1
    Humdinger1 Posts: 2,722 Forumite
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    Happy new year @Keedie.  Health before wealth indeed; plus I find that if I ignore illness to start with, I end up taking off more time in the end so it's more cost-effective to go to bed.  Congratulations on all your planning and saving.  Onwards and upwards love Humdinger xx 
  • Makingabobor2
    Makingabobor2 Posts: 4,573 Forumite
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    Yes....health before wealth. Most definitely. 
    Good luck with your decluttering. I am starting on that again this week. 
    Hope you feel better soon. Think we all need some sunshine. X
    Making the debt go down and savings go up

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