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Well done for making sacrifices to attend the funeral Emma. We don’t get a second chance to pay our final respects.
There’s nothing at all wrong with you hiding away from tick or treaters this evening. How you feel is how you feel.
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You are not rubbish @[Deleted User]. These behaviours are about business partner - not about you. Can you see any pattern to the behaviours? Is it when you're talking to her about additional work for example? Or maybe when you're talking about something you've achieved? It might help to do a bit of analysis about what's going on to depersonalise the situation. I found the following sites helpful.
https://www.life-with-confidence.com/people-who-put-you-down.html
https://www.life-with-confidence.com/friends-who-put-you-down.html
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Partnerships are supposed to enhance resilience and mutual support. Maybe you need to consider an alternative way of workingMortgage at 01.01.14 £119,481.83:eek: today £0 Emergency fund £5.5/5.5k & £200/200 cash.:jWeight 24/02/19 14st 7lb now 12st determined to stop defining myself by my mistakes. Progress not perfection.:T100%through my 1% mortgage challenge. 100% through my pb challenge.3
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I don’t know if this is possible, but having read your diary perhaps it is time to branch out on your own business wise. Another possibility is getting a position at a school full time or part-time. There is a teacher shortage. You will benefit from a guaranteed income all year around plus holidays to look after yourself. Plus of course membership of a very decent pension scheme.
I originally ‘retired’ at 59 but worked for a further 5 years at my former school on a number of part time temporary contracts which I enjoyed. To be honest I could still be there now such is the need!
Perhaps have a think and consider all possibilities. This present partnership seems rather toxic at the moment.
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I have never been in a school where someone is constantly filmed. Not all schools are the same. An interesting working week. Thank you for sharing.
Hopefully your recent talk with your partner may lead to change or improvements in the working atmosphere.2 -
One of my friends husband did a straight to crem funeral with no people, they just had a party a few weeks later to remember him
Hope today has gone as well as it canSealed pot challenge 822
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By the sounds of it the lasagne went to where it was most appreciated. Take heart from the enjoyment that your sister's partner has had from it.4
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That's great news2
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Wow, how much was outstanding ?A nice monthly chunk for you to snowball with nowSealed pot challenge 822
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Nearly £5500 saved is amazing. Something good happening for you for once.1
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