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Money Moral Dilemma: Should I tell my family their Christmas presents are second-hand?

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  • Matt8888
    Matt8888 Posts: 80 Forumite
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    How can you give someone a second hand present? It's ridiculous. If you are short of money give them a lottery ticket.
    A lottery ticket?! Not exactly a classy gift, is it? A well-chosen second hand present can show a great deal of thought and as such, can be a very classy gift.
  • Silvertabby
    Silvertabby Posts: 10,169 Forumite
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    edited 2 January 2022 at 10:40AM
    Clothes, no - but don't have a problem with good quality jewellery etc.

    Mr S knows that I collect Art Deco amber cloud glass - best part of 100 years old, and so impossible to buy new.

    He also bought me a diamond pendant that would have cost almost  twice as much when new -  the mark-up on new jewellery is astronomical!  
  • What difference does it make. Personally my children wouldn't care if it was brand new, second hand or made by me. It's all about giving
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