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Missy’s Surviving the storm so we can dance in the rain.

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  • missymoo81
    missymoo81 Posts: 8,049 Forumite
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    Ok so I’ve paid my dreaded tax. I’ve been shopping and done some washing, I’ve cleaned one of the bathrooms and put my clothes away which is always good. 
  • RelievedSheff
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    Boo to the tax bill.
  • missymoo81
    missymoo81 Posts: 8,049 Forumite
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    I’ve been dreading today I had to get through something, without meaning to sound too cryptic. and I’ve managed to, relatively unscathed. I’m so happy. I’ve been worrying about it for ages, I didn’t realise how much it was playing on my mind and filling my thoughts but now I can forget about it and move on and life shall remain as normal. Phew!
  • RelievedSheff
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    Hope you have a better day today 😀
  • Cheery_Daff
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    Glad you got through relatively unscathed Missy. These things do pray on our minds, don't they? X
  • jwil
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    Yay to sorting the tax bill and the other issue. :)
    "Good financial planning is about not spending money on things that add no value to your life in order to have more money for the things that do". Eoin McGee
  • missymoo81
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    Thanks so much @Cheery_Daff @RelievedSheff @jwil I really appreciate your kind comments. Despite feeling like absolute rubbish. I managed to train really well aNd get through work. 
  • dawnybabes
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    Hope alls well x 
    Sealed pot challenge 822

    Jan - £176.66 :j
  • Also hoping you are well @missymoo81
    Part time working mum of DS (2015) and DD (2018).

    NET WORTH Nov 25: £159,943
    Assets: £230,000
    Investments: £70,169
    Savings: £3,288
    Debt: -£143,514 (£700 CC / £16k car / £127k mortgage)
  • missymoo81
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    Hey @dawnybabes and @Bluegreen143 thank you so much for taking the time to check in 🥰. I’m ok thanks, fallen off the wagon unsurprisingly with my unrealistic literally spend no money plan. 🤦🏻‍♀️. I always do this and I never learn. I have the best intentions but I just need to be realistic! I’ve had to buy new trainers, and it’s half term and everything adds up. 

    Business has been tricky you need such a thick skin in this game and everyone is out for themselves and we’ve realised there are very few people we consider actual trusted friends lately. So that’s been a bit of a tough blow and we have a difficult/awkward meeting on Saturday to deal with.

    But in other news, I’ve meal planned ok this week, I got to meet my new niece 🥰. Having a lovely half term with the children and have actually been able to exercise to an amount I’m happy with which is always a bonus.

    so it’s not all bad! How is everyone else doing? X
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