The Best View Comes After the Hardest Climb.

Buffythedebtslayer

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Buffythedebtslayer said:

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Is the head a realistic prospect?  Could we have some romance on the cards? Hope you get your energy back soon x

Ha ha NO, I suspect he is gay and about 8 years younger than me!  but he is very handsome so nice to dream  

You never know though - he may not be - is there a work night out on the horizon soon where you can observe?

He is completely out of my league, that is not me lacking confidence that is honesty! 

still not moved the fish tank!! 

Very worried about my smallest bunny. I think she is being bullied by the others. I don't know what to do for her I have really messed her up, left her to be friend with house bun, lost house bun, moved her outside alone, then eventually (after 2 months of living side by side) bonded her with the others, but as the space has got bigger she has lost out. She is a year old today. And I can't get her out from the hutch  

any how best get on! XX

Sun_Addict

Nice to have a bit of eye candy if nothing else 😉 Might put a spring in your step. 

No advice about the smallest bunny unfortunately,  bless her. Hopefully someone with experience will come forward.

As ever take care Buffster xx

Buffythedebtslayer

Not really seen her, she is under the hutch in a hole - burrow! I will have to leave her there, she does eat, I put food around and in the hole and I see her head bobbing in and out eating, I am praying she isn't injured, I don't think so cos the others can't get to her and I hear her moving etc. They are too big... I have such an imagination. I wish she was indoors. The bonding advice is to leave her as she still might bond but I am so worried about her. 

I have cleaned a lot of the conservatory but not at the point of moving the fish tank - becoming quite the saga now! Will have to do it tomorrow night. However if it works out it will be good. Fingers crossed. 

I am FULL of plans for the house  and garden in the Easter holidays, I am now at the point with Mum where I need the house to work for me. The conservatory is the starting point, then my room and the sheds and then the kitchen. The living room has held up well, Mum will always be Mum thankfully XX but the some of it is changing. Things will be better. 

Willowtree222

Glad you seem so much more positive.
I’ve no advice on the bunny sorry. My two bonded without me even realising they’d made it out together.

Hope work is ok this week. At least you have someone nice to look at!!

Buffythedebtslayer

Oh God I have been out with the rabbits for about an hour. Poor smallest bun is being chased by the (not) foster girl - the cow basically (she has had 5 homes mind so I can see her point!) each time she came out of from under the hutch. At one point she pinned her down and I couldn't get in the space to stop her. small bun got away but she must be terrified. 
I couldn't get her from under the hutch at all. 

Oh God. this is just awful. Sorry I know there are worst things.  Just feels wrong leaving her there. 

DawnW

Maybe you could rehome the small rabbit? She obviously isn't very happy with the current situation. And it is stressful for you, when you have enough stress with the house, your Mum and your job. Take care xx

Buffythedebtslayer

Can I just say I am slightly proud of myself

last night the key broke in the lock of the back door! 

I had about 4 hours sleep due to worrying about it. My back is unbelievably painful.  I couldn't get in the shower this morning so haven't gone to work. 

Had to let the dogs out the front. 

Couldn't get to the rabbits. 

Fiddled and fiddled with the lock, tweezers(too slippery), pliers (too big) and then remembered something I saw on Supernatural with a lock picking so I clipped the end off a hair clip and twiddled and twiddled about with that and unlocked the door!! 

am so relieved. 

Of course now we have unlockable back door. But that is a solvable problem. I have spare window locks. it will do for now. 

Buffythedebtslayer

DawnW said:

Maybe you could rehome the small rabbit? She obviously isn't very happy with the current situation. And it is stressful for you, when you have enough stress with the house, your Mum and your job. Take care xx

I am thinking about it. 

I will have to either have her as a house bunny or make an area for her outside.... alone... not great. 

Willowtree222

Glad you managed to at least sort the lock out. 

Perhaps her as a house bun would be good? 

Buffythedebtslayer

I am just going to write something here to remind myself. 

 When nothing you do is good enough and when you give and give and when kindness is seen as weakness and failure you must understand that somehow people don't think how you do and don't accept reality and it is NOT a reflection on you but on them. 

And you carry on doing what is right. As that is what you believe in. and ultimately gives you peace. 

Love you all XXX