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Today turned into a complete change.
DD was supposed to be with her dad and I had a day planned to do get things done. Unfortunately, whatever he said to her in the car upset her and she refused to go with him, so I took her to her club and did my things after the club. I explained to DD that I had things to do after and she was ok.
We are cooking dinner tonight. It is one of our favourites to make together. She is currently fast asleep at the side of me so not sure when that will start.
We have plans together tomorrow after her club.
I have booked a Christmas fair in and so have lots of things I need to make between now and then. It is 6 weeks away but that will be here soon. I have no idea where I am going to store everything I make between now and then!
September 2017 Debt = £25330
Starting afresh.
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How awful of him to upset DD 😡 What a nasty piece of work he sounds. I wonder if he did it deliberately in the hopes of this happening. I hope she’s ok x
I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping) -.literally have been run over by a bike, mobility scooter and a car - still here 💪1 -
I do wonder if it is deliberate so he doesn't have to parent.
September 2017 Debt = £25330
Starting afresh.
You can do anything if you put your mind to it. x0 -
What an utter womble. Hope DD is ok.
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Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
"A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** in ~~Japanese proverb. ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger.
One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.[/b] [11 months left.[/b]1 -
Womble 😂 I love that!
We had an argument over text last night as I had asked to swap all November days over because I will struggle. He wanted to know why and when I refused to answer what I was doing, he changed from being able to swap to being unable because he was busy.
The actual sad part is that him now refusing doesn't stop me, but it does stop DD being able to attend her club. I think he thinks that I have found another man. DD knows exactly what I am doing and understands why it can not be changed. She is the only opinion I actually care about and I always explain everything to her.
We had a lovely tea tonight.
September 2017 Debt = £25330
Starting afresh.
You can do anything if you put your mind to it. x0 -
The sad part is that it’s DD he is hurting. I always remember my ex DH refusing to babysit for DS as we had had an argument. I always remember how hurt DS was.
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Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
"A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** in ~~Japanese proverb. ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger.
One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.[/b] [11 months left.[/b]1 -
I know. Part of me wonders why he is so interested in what I am doing and unless I tell him, he refuses to help. I am not being held to ransom so he gets to know what I am doing.
Sad really.
I will arrange cover where I can and DD will be with me the other days and will help me with what I am doing.
September 2017 Debt = £25330
Starting afresh.
You can do anything if you put your mind to it. x1
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