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Beneficiary turned 18

brooke68
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My daughter was left a significant amount by her step grandfather, held in trust until she turned 18. The main trustee is a friend of his new partner who we have never met.
My daughter has now turned 18 and emailed the trustee to ask if she needed to provide any documentation and what would happen next. She received a curt reply saying that the trustee couldn’t tell her anything until she had spoken to her solicitor. This meeting was two days ago and my daughter has still not received any update or reply to a subsequent emails.
How long is this likely to take and is there anything she should do?
My daughter has now turned 18 and emailed the trustee to ask if she needed to provide any documentation and what would happen next. She received a curt reply saying that the trustee couldn’t tell her anything until she had spoken to her solicitor. This meeting was two days ago and my daughter has still not received any update or reply to a subsequent emails.
How long is this likely to take and is there anything she should do?
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Bearing in mind the trustee only met with their solicitor 2 days ago I think you and your daughter need to be a little bit more patient. I would expect that you would receive something in writing from the trustee or their solicitor shortly, but I would give then a couple of weeks before following this up..2
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The trustee could have spoken with a solicitor just prior to the beneficiary turning 18 so they could meet their obligation to transfer the inheritance in a timely manner. No update & no reply to emails is rude (& a bit suspicious, but then I've got a suspicious nature).
I'd be researching options for a solicitor to handle the arrangements for this, not actually employing one, yet. Just giving it some thought if nothing is heard in a few weeks. Long enough to wait with silence from the trustee.Seen it all, done it all, can't remember most of it.2 -
Is your daughter a "sensible" 18 year old?
Is she open to suggestions about starting a pension, ISA etc. and investing a significant portion of the money for the future?
How much is a "significant amount"?
Is she working or at Uni etc?How's it going, AKA, Nutwatch? - 12 month spends to date = 2.56% of current retirement "pot" (as at end January 2025)0 -
Sea_Shell said:Is your daughter a "sensible" 18 year old?
Is she open to suggestions about starting a pension, ISA etc. and investing a significant portion of the money for the future?
How much is a "significant amount"?
Is she working or at Uni etc?9 -
brooke68 said:
My daughter has now turned 18 and emailed the trustee to ask if she needed to provide any documentation and what would happen next. She received a curt reply saying that the trustee couldn’t tell her anything until she had spoken to her solicitor. This meeting was two days ago and my daughter has still not received any update or reply to a subsequent emails.
How long is this likely to take and is there anything she should do?
If the meeting was only 2 days ago, to say she has 'still not received any update' ignores the fact that the trustee has a life of their own and may have any number of other calls on their time (and might have completely forgotten this important anniversary was coming up, which seems quite possible, given their response to your daughter). More importantly, they may also be waiting for the solicitor to advise on what steps need to be taken to wind up the trust and liquidate the funds (and what those funds will be after tax or other charges). It isn't a bank account where they can just write out a cheque.
Instead of fuming because the trustee hasn't jumped to it as you believe they should, all you and your daughter need to do is exercise a little patience. Then if she does fancy a trip to Vegas...!!Googling on your question might have been both quicker and easier, if you're only after simple facts rather than opinions!4 -
Happy to be corrected but I thought that a young beneficiary was legally entitled to the money at the age of 18 regardless of an age stipulation in a Will.4
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If this is a bare trust, the beneficiary is legally entitled to call for access to and control of Trust assets at the age of 18 (16 in Scotland).0
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I appreciate it's irrelevant, as they are now an adult. I was just curious, as it may be a reason (albeit wrongly) for the trustees to drag their feet.
If the trustees won't release the money, then I'm guessing your daughter would have to involve solicitors.
I put nothing past people after reading these forums for years!!How's it going, AKA, Nutwatch? - 12 month spends to date = 2.56% of current retirement "pot" (as at end January 2025)3 -
Marcon said:brooke68 said:
My daughter has now turned 18 and emailed the trustee to ask if she needed to provide any documentation and what would happen next. She received a curt reply saying that the trustee couldn’t tell her anything until she had spoken to her solicitor. This meeting was two days ago and my daughter has still not received any update or reply to a subsequent emails.
How long is this likely to take and is there anything she should do?
If the meeting was only 2 days ago, to say she has 'still not received any update' ignores the fact that the trustee has a life of their own and may have any number of other calls on their time (and might have completely forgotten this important anniversary was coming up, which seems quite possible, given their response to your daughter). More importantly, they may also be waiting for the solicitor to advise on what steps need to be taken to wind up the trust and liquidate the funds (and what those funds will be after tax or other charges). It isn't a bank account where they can just write out a cheque.
Instead of fuming because the trustee hasn't jumped to it as you believe they should, all you and your daughter need to do is exercise a little patience. Then if she does fancy a trip to Vegas...!!0 -
Sea_Shell said:I appreciate it's irrelevant, as they are now an adult. I was just curious, as it may be a reason (albeit wrongly) for the trustees to drag their feet.
If the trustees won't release the money, then I'm guessing your daughter would have to involve solicitors.
I put nothing past people after reading these forums for years!!0
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