We'd like to remind Forumites to please avoid political debate on the Forum... Read More »
PLEASE READ BEFORE POSTING: Hello Forumites! In order to help keep the Forum a useful, safe and friendly place for our users, discussions around non-MoneySaving matters are not permitted per the Forum rules. While we understand that mentioning house prices may sometimes be relevant to a user's specific MoneySaving situation, we ask that you please avoid veering into broad, general debates about the market, the economy and politics, as these can unfortunately lead to abusive or hateful behaviour. Threads that are found to have derailed into wider discussions may be removed. Users who repeatedly disregard this may have their Forum account banned. Please also avoid posting personally identifiable information, including links to your own online property listing which may reveal your address. Thank you for your understanding.
📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!
Life science - Buy or rent
Options
Comments
-
We relocated for my husband's job from a large 3 bed in Lancashire to a small 3 bed in Sussex just when we really wanted a larger home for growing kids. It's what many folk do...move to improve job prospects and buy what you can afford. Now we're nearing our 60s we finally bought a 4 bed detached for the two of us plus cat. It was a lucky move as the adult kids moved in with their partners at the beginning of lockdown and saved their rent money towards a deposit. The first ones to fly the nest work in Brighton, where they can't afford to buy, so they negotiated to work from home full time and are buying a house in the NE; a modest semi with a tiny garden and no garage. It's a start! When they've built up some equity in their first home maybe they'll use it to buy a bigger place. Having a foot on the property ladder gives them that option.If you can't buy where you want to live, buy somewhere cheaper, look for a job outside London until you have the experience or qualifications that would command a higher salary.You have to cut according to your cloth...or make more cloth!6
-
Interesting reading but struggling to understand the point of this thread. Is the point that the OP is complaining about not being able to afford the house they want in the location they want?2
-
FirstTimeSolo said:Interesting reading but struggling to understand the point of this thread. Is the point that the OP is complaining about not being able to afford the house they want in the location they want?
I could give you another example, 120k in London for a financial firm, quite high level position, the highest level could pay probably 250k in IT, with some exception to 300k.
The mortgage affordability says that you can buy a .... box with these money, that's the kind of mortgage you are gonna take (120k).
I think that there is a big misconception here about shared ownership, remortgage another property etc, all things that I consider extremely risky and silly, not really in my plan.
So, who buys in London usually can't afford the property and end up into troubles, troubles that I pay with my taxes, and you too
0 -
Did you have a new question or are you still just complaining about not having enough money?FWIW I've been on minimum wage for the majority of my career yet still managed to buy a property. Perhaps your expectations are just too high.3
-
RobHT said:FirstTimeSolo said:Interesting reading but struggling to understand the point of this thread. Is the point that the OP is complaining about not being able to afford the house they want in the location they want?
I could give you another example, 120k in London for a financial firm, quite high level position, the highest level could pay probably 250k in IT, with some exception to 300k.
The mortgage affordability says that you can buy a .... box with these money, that's the kind of mortgage you are gonna take (120k).
I think that there is a big misconception here about shared ownership, remortgage another property etc, all things that I consider extremely risky and silly, not really in my plan.
So, who buys in London usually can't afford the property and end up into troubles, troubles that I pay with my taxes, and you too
They would (well should) be able to save say 60k pretty quickly.
So thats a 600k box.
On a completely unrelated subject has anyone seen my tiny violin?
8 -
Very few people can afford their dream home, especially at first. I would love a double fronted detached 5 bedroom period home with double garage, front garden, drive way for two cars, utility room, large kitchen diner, two living rooms and a summer house in the (large) back garden.
I have a very lovely 90s 3 bed semi with semi detached garage and one parking space. It is an asset that may or may not allow me to have the dream home in the future but if not, it is security, roots and (hopefully) a way to not have to factor housing costs into my retirement plan (bar bills and maintenance of course). It is also home.I’m not really sure what the point of the OPs thread is. Yes there are other investments that can make a better return than property but home ownership is about more than money.Seems like the OP is laughing at others for being silly enough to buy a house?1 -
OP has other similar discussion threads eg how/whether to buy a van.......What's happened to the old 'discussion' board that seems to have vanished since the forum re-vamp?
2 -
canaldumidi said:OP has other similar discussion threads eg how/whether to buy a van.......What's happened to the old 'discussion' board that seems to have vanished since the forum re-vamp?
0 -
Owleyes00 said:Very few people can afford their dream home, especially at first. I would love a double fronted detached 5 bedroom period home with double garage, front garden, drive way for two cars, utility room, large kitchen diner, two living rooms and a summer house in the (large) back garden.
I have a very lovely 90s 3 bed semi with semi detached garage and one parking space. It is an asset that may or may not allow me to have the dream home in the future but if not, it is security, roots and (hopefully) a way to not have to factor housing costs into my retirement plan (bar bills and maintenance of course). It is also home.I’m not really sure what the point of the OPs thread is. Yes there are other investments that can make a better return than property but home ownership is about more than money.Seems like the OP is laughing at others for being silly enough to buy a house?
If I ever laugh, it's because when I see people instisting that they can afford something in London, instead they are always at 1h distance with the car, or 45 minutes by train, minimum.
Even with that, they struggle and go beyond their possibilities, the rest of the country pay their debt0 -
RobHT said:
If I ever laugh, it's because when I see people instisting that they can afford something in London, instead they are always at 1h distance with the car, or 45 minutes by train, minimum.1
This discussion has been closed.
Confirm your email address to Create Threads and Reply

Categories
- All Categories
- 351.1K Banking & Borrowing
- 253.2K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
- 453.6K Spending & Discounts
- 244.1K Work, Benefits & Business
- 599.1K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
- 177K Life & Family
- 257.5K Travel & Transport
- 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
- 16.1K Discuss & Feedback
- 37.6K Read-Only Boards