Possible dispute over jointly inherited house
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Your brother seems much closer to accepting reality. Have you considered that if you just took the bull by the horns, told him kindly but firmly 'this is happening now, there's no other option, but I love you and I'll help you sort things out with your share' that he mayt in fact be a bit relieved and glad to have the decision making, coming up with plans etc. and stress out of his hands.1
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wannabe_a_saver said:Your brother seems much closer to accepting reality. Have you considered that if you just took the bull by the horns, told him kindly but firmly 'this is happening now, there's no other option, but I love you and I'll help you sort things out with your share' that he mayt in fact be a bit relieved and glad to have the decision making, coming up with plans etc. and stress out of his hands.
I've heard nothing from him about his looking into his finances, it really feels as if he was just saying that to stall things further. I did email the solicitor to ask what we do if my brother won't discuss things with me and thus we can't agree on what happens to the house. Two weeks later and no reply so will phone them to ask the question I think, then once I have an answer work out from there what to do next.1 -
DepositSaver,Thanks for the update even though it seems nothing has progressed. I think at the moment your are best letting the Solictor deal with it. It makes them the bad guy and not you.Fingers crossed you hear back from the solictor soon and things can get moving. I assuming the estate is paying for the solictor? If so does your brother understand that its costing the estate money doing it this way. Which in turns means both of you gets less at the end? That might be that he needs to be reminded of this. As sometimes people bury their heads in the sand. But once they realise they will be getting less money due their actions they often tend to start agreeing to things.YoursCalleyHope for everything and expect nothing!!!
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Wow I'm about to go through almost the exact same issue. A lot to read here and sadly seems like its not going to be easy. I'm trying so hard not to let my situation eat up all my energy and thoughts, hope you find peace in this and can move forward in your life and maintain your relationship with your brother.0
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