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Giving Up/Cutting Down Alcohol Thread Part 17

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  • maman
    maman Posts: 29,822 Forumite
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    Sending you the biggest of hugs @WannabeFree. 🤗
  • satchmo1
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    So sorry to hear about the loss of your Mum and your dad's health problems @Wanna_Bee_Free you hadn't even had time to turn around between diagnosis and her death. Your dad must be very distressed, too, on top of being unwell. Hugs and prayers for you (hope you don't mind prayers). As others have said, take care of yourself. 

    12/26 for me today please.

    I was (mildly) unwell during Mass this morning, and had to leave my car there and be driven home. Hubby wasn't pleased about having to walk to church to retrieve the car (and the Sunday papers). I was very cross with him for prioritising the car. To be fair (hmph, don't wanna be!) I had left the car windows partly open. 
    What would you get if all you got was what you were thankful for?
  • marahouti
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    I am very sorry to hear of your mother's sudden death W_B_F and your father's health problems. I too lost my mother to cancer (although not as suddenly) and needed to support my father so I know something of what you are going through. Please please be gentle to yourself and take some time for yourself to process your shock and grief. X

    14/25 please cathybird. X
  • cathybird
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    edited 15 August 2022 at 3:33PM
    August

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  • lantanna
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    Thinking of you Wannabefree, your strength will carry you through one day at a time. 8/12 please
  • Sorry to hear your sad news @Wanna_Bee_Free, please be kind to yourself.

    8/15 for me today, thanks x
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  • sukeyboo
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    Declaring early for today on 7/10 please cathybird
  • Wanna_Bee_Free
    Wanna_Bee_Free Posts: 2,358 Forumite
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    edited 15 August 2022 at 9:49AM
    Good morning,
    I am really warmed by your good thoughts, that's kind of you. I used to worry about what to say and now for me at least it's knowing there are thoughts and prayers that is helpful. Thank you. 
    I am not sure how/when/where to get this time to process things. Also dealt with a bathroom in the hotel flooding from the floor above and a washing machine flood in the first airbnb I booked. OH is being a rock. Actually a rock making very bad corny jokes if that were a thing. Moved hotel room or accommodation 5 times since 5th August! Three more nights here at least. 
    Alcohol: well it won't surprise anyone to know I've overdone it some nights. 

    Rob, your post made me smile wryly/knowingly. Hope you find the right words, especially if she's gorgeous. Honesty, but not too much!
    ETA and my signature is out of date again on here. 
  • Arkers
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    Good morning everyone,
    9 please Cathy 
    Arkers x
    WBF very sorry for your loss, thoughts and prayers at this sad time.
    Arkers x
  • RobM99
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    Hi all, the dreaded phone call hasn't occurred yet!
    15/30 here and audition for new band tomorrow. Learning stuff today!
    Now a gainfully employed bassist again - WooHoo!
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