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  • mellymoo74
    mellymoo74 Posts: 6,529 Forumite
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    Managed to keep most seperate luckily
    Didn't know they were going to take the overpayment out of my universal credit till today. 
    Getting there 
  • mellymoo74
    mellymoo74 Posts: 6,529 Forumite
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    Got a letter from the housing it was nice as it was from the housing officer. 
    Then got a nasty email from the rent account person. 
    Really really sick of being treated like this, I have evidence that a crime was committed yet we keep talking about serious allegations on both sides. 
  • Was the housing officer the man Mel? The rent account person wouldn;t win any prizes for manners or behaving professionally.. Everything will get sorted
    You've got your evidence and WA at your back.
    pollyx
    It is better to light a single candle than to curse the darkness.

    There but for fortune go you and I.
  • mellymoo74
    mellymoo74 Posts: 6,529 Forumite
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    Yes the housing officer is the man who referred me to the council for a risk assessment. 
    As you saw I have asked them to state the evidence that ex has shown them, oh that's right there isn't any so stop with the stupidness 
  • Archergirl
    Archergirl Posts: 1,845 Forumite
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    Wow, another few years and you will look like a teenager lol, joking aside you are looking fab, and I hope you know it keep up the good work xx 
  • mellymoo74
    mellymoo74 Posts: 6,529 Forumite
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    Stress kills Archergirl look at what 9 weeks has done 
  • Oh Mel what a difference freedom makes. I lost loads of weight until the ex was finally out of our lives. I've always been slim like my dad was and the massive weight loss really undermined my health.
    Anyone housing, police etc that are seeing the lying abuse you're being bombarded with needs to look at those images to see the real truth.
    pollyx
    It is better to light a single candle than to curse the darkness.

    There but for fortune go you and I.
  • The first of those pics may help you understand why so many of us worried and feared for your future when you were with him. Not just a year ago but over many years.
    They say a picture paints a thousand words and it's a fact.
    pollyx
    It is better to light a single candle than to curse the darkness.

    There but for fortune go you and I.
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