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  • coldcazzie
    coldcazzie Posts: 1,407 Forumite
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    Messages were pinging on the What's App last night, but I made a conscious effort not to read them past 5.00pm - have just caught up and I really didn't miss anything. 
    DND. Seriously. It's brilliant. I have mine set to go on and off between certain hours and I will only allow messages/calls through from whichever client(s) I'm on call for and immediate family (Manwife™/kids).
    Rule 7: If you're not changing it, you're choosing it.
    MFW 2020: 1 Jan £92903.90 ~ OP £536.80/£500
    MFW 2021: 1 Jan £89281.21 ~ OP £404.62/£500
    MFW 2022: 1 Jan £85579.20 ~ OPs on hold.
  • coldcazzie
    coldcazzie Posts: 1,407 Forumite
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    Grogged said:
    And I hate that the working day is now between getting up and evening meal time for some people... 😠
    That must be very strange if you're not used to it! It sounds like you're getting good boundaries in place though - that's the key to making it work.
    Rule 7: If you're not changing it, you're choosing it.
    MFW 2020: 1 Jan £92903.90 ~ OP £536.80/£500
    MFW 2021: 1 Jan £89281.21 ~ OP £404.62/£500
    MFW 2022: 1 Jan £85579.20 ~ OPs on hold.
  • greenbee
    greenbee Posts: 18,555 Forumite
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    @South_coast - dropping a whole lot of emails on everyone first thing on Monday morning is also a good way of keeping everyone quiet for a few hours ;) I love all your stories - I may be stealing them (tweaked a bit)  for some stuff I'm doing for work on homeworking/future of work. I'm a full time homeworker and have been for about 15 years - although I've spent more time in offices in the last couple of years. It's interesting to see how people are/are not adapting. 
  • South_coast
    South_coast Posts: 6,149 Forumite
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    Steal away - at least someone will get a benefit from it then!!!
    Mortgage start: £65,495 (March 2016)
    Cleared 🧚‍♀️🧚‍♀️🧚‍♀️!!! In 5 years, 1 month and 29 days
    Total amount repaid: £72,307.03. £1.10 repaid for every £1.00 borrowed

    Finally earning interest instead of paying it!!!
  • South_coast
    South_coast Posts: 6,149 Forumite
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    Thanks SJ, glad it's not just me that finds it intrusive. I've got all the notifications turned off as far as I can see, but can't seem to stop it scrolling across my screen when I've got my phone in my hand for something else (like retro calling/texting people, or reading MFW 😀). Today has been MUCH better thank goodness, although I can still see it scrolling out of the corner of my eye now....😦

    Vodka being well-utilised, although tonight is red wine 😀
    Mortgage start: £65,495 (March 2016)
    Cleared 🧚‍♀️🧚‍♀️🧚‍♀️!!! In 5 years, 1 month and 29 days
    Total amount repaid: £72,307.03. £1.10 repaid for every £1.00 borrowed

    Finally earning interest instead of paying it!!!
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