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  • alt80
    alt80 Posts: 4,641 Forumite
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    edited 18 September 2020 at 10:59PM
    Great update, @mark55man

    I've not been back to the gym since lockdown. I built a decent home gym a long time ago but never really used it until lockdown now wife and I workout together sometimes. She does a workout everyday, I'm usually too consumed by my businesses to workout everyday but it was great over lockdown. Walking is as much about getting into a habit - have you got a dog? I know it's not right for everyone but we walk a lot more since having ours.

    You're quite a bit older than me I think (I'm 40 in November) but have you found your views on retirement have changed? I simply don't care about it and haven't over my career. Older guys in my industry tell me I'll really struggle to keep the pace up as I get older; my profession isn't particularly physically demanding but can be stressful and there are active elements. I am in the fortunate position of being able to work towards picking and choosing my own jobs whilst managing staff doing the rest so I don't see a point I'll say I've had enough. My BTL portfolio is quite management heavy (mainly HMOs) but I don't need to be quite as hands on as I am with it.
  • alt80
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    Thank you the 40 thing and realising I can’t keep burning through more than I earn every month has made me start to rethink a lot of things. 

    I don’t envy 4 under 8 at all lol. I’m a ltd company director so I’m the employer and employee. Aware of the tax advantages but never took advantage- always needed every single penny I can get and half the next months lol. My business is worth quite a lot to the right person with a very small commercial portfolio the profits of which I don’t touch and I’m slowly paying down £1.2m of btls owned in a separate ltd company hence why I see so little from them. I suppose if I wanted to retire I could be in the position of being ok.
  • mark55man
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    as long as you have a plan, and you should never let the "tax tail" wag the "life dog" BUT it can be quite a big tail so you should at least know what you are wagging!.  small business ownership gives you a lot of angles - even to owning business property - you should consult an expert both accountant and pension.  or explain your situation on the pensions board and see if you could get some beneficial restructuring without actually changing anything that matters to you - apologies is teaching you to suck eggs, but it is easy to get so focussed on delivering and growing the business you forget what to do with the profits
    I think I saw you in an ice cream parlour
    Drinking milk shakes, cold and long
    Smiling and waving and looking so fine
  • alt80
    alt80 Posts: 4,641 Forumite
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    You’re right about the business it’s my life and the cars are my only release really. Accountant has been good over the years and currently doing a bit of restructuring to take advantage of my wife’s tax allowances so should see a bit more income soon. 

    I probably ought to see a financial advisor don’t really want to have to explain my embarrassing situation though tbh. 
  • mark55man
    mark55man Posts: 8,209 Forumite
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    They've seen worse - an embarrassment of riches perhaps, and a reordering of priorities - possibly a bit less gearing in your personal life - then you can both cry all the way to the bank.    

    Earlier you asked about priorities changing - I think as you get a bit older you value personal things more than purchased things, so it gets easier to be a bit more time rich and thing poor (note, not money poor, I'm still ambitious, just less material goods to buy).  One slightly younger friend got a lovely Audi TT, put some cool personal plates on it to avoid new registration temptations, and kept it so smart and shiny that you would think it was new unless you were a Audi TT geek and could tell from model changes.  He kept that one as long as I knew him (about 8 years)   
    I think I saw you in an ice cream parlour
    Drinking milk shakes, cold and long
    Smiling and waving and looking so fine
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