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2020++ - smiling and waving and looking so fine

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  • alt80
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    Looking good on all fronts - how often do you number crunch and do you try to stick to the budget every month or if under one month set spends higher for next month?
  • mark55man
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    I don't really budget, as me and OH do much the same every month - like I said a few times, we have taken the scenic route.  Also I have a couple of magic money pots - performance bonuses, allowances and a share scheme that I use as an Emergency Fund.

    There is absolutely no doubt about it, that I would have been far better off and have spent less money and less time by being stricter with forward looking budgets - I basically look back at what I spent and try to learn lessons.  However, on the other had budgeting is very controlling (that's the point) so I just use Copernicus' principle (Basically assume that this month will be the same as last month) which work OK-ish but erratically 
    I think I saw you in an ice cream parlour
    Drinking milk shakes, cold and long
    Smiling and waving and looking so fine
  • alt80
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    I would like to not have to budget can deal with the scenic route I think if it means I don’t have to give anything up but getting on for £3.5-4k/m In over spending think I’ve going to have to budget. 
  • mark55man
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    Weekly Focus (Long Standing)
    Weight:- Weighed in today - 2kilos down so now at 229lbs or under 16 1/2 stone.
    Money:- Going well 58 days not overdrawn

    New Focus (Since 19/09) 
    • Steps / Keep fit - Walk round lake - 4000 - didn't make it round twice as just so lovely to sit and watch the water
    • Restart and maintain an outdoor hobby - Walking (Ha ha) - not yet but will count cycling when I do it
    • Improve house environment - (clean/fixed) - normal chores done early - planned out incremental approach, identified new mattresses to buy - just need to find best deal
    • less procrastination - eat more frogs more - (save/make) - reorganised my DDs and cancelled 2 for £20 a month (which and a magazine)
    I think I saw you in an ice cream parlour
    Drinking milk shakes, cold and long
    Smiling and waving and looking so fine
  • mark55man
    mark55man Posts: 8,221 Forumite
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    * Day 5 - Brunch: Blueberry Muffins and Bacon - Supper: Chicken Tikka Massala
    * Day 6 - Breakfast: Continental Meat & Cheese - Lunch: Tomato Soup - Supper: Roast Chicken & Roasted Carrots
    * Day 7 - Breakfast: Tomato Soup (!!) - Lunch: Smoked Salmon Salad - Supper: Chicken Tagine in Chickpea Gravy

    Day 7 was today.

    New Focus (Since 19/09) 
    • Steps / Keep fit - Walk at work - 3500
    • Improve house environment - (clean/fixed) - normal chores done early - decluttered the car a little (yes really!)
    • less procrastination - eat more frogs more - (save/make) - more lists and spreadsheets (I'm such a junkie)
    (Observant readers will note I am not reporting that I haven't started cycling every weekday that I don't do it.  But will get a mention at Weekends!!) 
    I think I saw you in an ice cream parlour
    Drinking milk shakes, cold and long
    Smiling and waving and looking so fine
  • alt80
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    Declutter car?! What's there to declutter in a car? intrigued lol. 
  • Nice to read more about your back story
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £171.3K Equity 36.55%
    2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 10/10/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £30.9K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.25K) = 35.5/£127.5K target 27.8% 14/11/25
    (If took bigger lump sum = 62K or 48.6%)
    4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise) (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
    5) SIPP £5.1K updated 14/11/25
  • mark55man
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    Ha - I thought you might pick that up.  My OH does charity work for a food bank type organisation an they have temporarily lost their storage space.  so my car (the largest estate in the village) is now a mobile dispensary as we don;t want to unload the stuff into the car.  Yesterday we got rid of a few boxes while the management are trying to find new storage - but they are a bit slow as they aren't faced with the inconvenience, which if often but not always the way of the world
    I think I saw you in an ice cream parlour
    Drinking milk shakes, cold and long
    Smiling and waving and looking so fine
  • alt80
    alt80 Posts: 4,675 Forumite
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    That makes a bit more sense thought you were one of the dirty people with McDonald’s etc cartons in the car for a moment. 

    Tbf the boot of my Range Rover is always full of my work stuff. Not a mess like others in my industry though think I’ve just admitted to a bit of ocd. 🤣
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