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  • mark55man
    mark55man Posts: 8,205 Forumite
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    My 5 year targets - 5 years ago were  :blush: for fail.  :smiley: for success . :neutral: for neutral

    Weight and Health
    Lose 1kg a month to end up at 100KG or under in 2021 and under 200lbs in 2024 - :blush: (no roller coaster emoji)
    Steps / Keep fit - at least 3 times a week over 10000 and always over 5000 - :neutral:
    budget and financial goals
    2020 - clear CC debt - :smiley:
    2020 - banish the overdraft and my louche attitude to it - overdrafts are evil not financial lubrication :smiley::smiley:
    2024 - clear Mortgage (current slightly aggressive trajectory) - :neutral:
    be more green 
    reduce consumption and more recycling (frregle, ebay, whatever) :smiley:
    greener personal environment - car / garden / house - :smiley:
    community and volunteering
    At least one day a month charity or community volunteering :smiley:
    Online and ongoing support for activity groups, especially food bank and homeless :neutral:
    organisational and household goals. 
    declutter one trip a week :neutral:
    less procrastination - eat more frogs more often - :blush:
    Better use of existing utility and work related benefits/coverage :neutral:
    Restart an outdoor hobby  :blush:
    I think I saw you in an ice cream parlour
    Drinking milk shakes, cold and long
    Smiling and waving and looking so fine
  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 28,958 Forumite
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    It sounds like you are finding balance = which is what many of us are striving for. I like the idea of gradually tapering your hours - it gives you financial security, social structure - and helps you adjust along the way. I'm not sure I'd cope with a big bang approach - although with your mini sabbatical you got to trial that. How was it in practice? You certainly sounded very busy.
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £174.8K Equity 32.77%
    2) £3K Net savings after CCs 6/7/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £22.5K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.1K) = 28.2/£127.5K target 22;12% updated 6/7
    4) FI Age 60 income target £16.5/30K 55.1%
    5) SIPP £4.6K updated 6/7/25
  • FootyFanDan
    FootyFanDan Posts: 1,674 Forumite
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    Happy new year Mark, loved following your journey.
    Days to Orlando: 462- ☀️🎢

  • mark55man
    mark55man Posts: 8,205 Forumite
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    Thank you Dan and SH - yes I haven't really done a sabbatical what was it like sort of post.

    I will give that some thought but essentially I was quite busy and I really needed and enjoyed it, but I learned that I wasn't quite ready and wouldn't be until my OH was able to retire herself
    I think I saw you in an ice cream parlour
    Drinking milk shakes, cold and long
    Smiling and waving and looking so fine
  • mark55man
    mark55man Posts: 8,205 Forumite
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    Couple of weeks into the year so reporting back

    Steps and Weight
     - steps a bit down given how far below zero its been!  Still over 1.5m since this time last year but static at that point. Our redone dining room, now the snug, is simply too snug to leave apparently.  But to counter that I did rejoin the gym and spent 90 minutes there today - 60 minutes walking and inclines and 30minutes indoor rowing - 5Km for each to show how slow I am nowadays.  Weight is level as we have been munching our way through XMAS leftovers - very nice but done with now

    This leads to a question of mojo - 2 weeks have been OK - a new challenge at work and getting through stuff at home.  So the slight motivational disjoint following sabbatical and heading back to work is largely under control.  All last years business!! 

    Debt and Finances. 
    Priority here is about £6K that is not on 0% and about the same again that is at 0% - I should be able to clear pretty quickly now that back at work and paid off my youngest's care programme.  Its the first interest I have paid on CC in a long while which is painful and its quite interesting watching my Credit score slide (only gently, and it doesn't matter to me in any case)

    house and environment 
    Things looking tidy - I spent a little more with my handyman to tidy up the front of the house (last time was the back).  Now its up to me to keep it in order, and I will just have to person up and get on with it (once its a bit warmer of course)
    I think I saw you in an ice cream parlour
    Drinking milk shakes, cold and long
    Smiling and waving and looking so fine
  • alt80
    alt80 Posts: 4,638 Forumite
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    Good to hear from you mate. The weather was awful this weekend here, definitely better getting your exercise at the gym when it’s like that rather than a lot of walking outside. My wife managed to fall on some black ice last week - thankfully did not hurt herself.

    Have you got any transfer options for the £6k interest bearing debt? Unless you’re going to clear this month or within a timeframe that will beat any transfer fee, I’d move it. You might as well not give the banks a free gift. 
  • mark55man
    mark55man Posts: 8,205 Forumite
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    Thanks Alt - yes you are right interest is like £60  a month - so I should do it.  I guess i had hoped to avoid doing that again
    I think I saw you in an ice cream parlour
    Drinking milk shakes, cold and long
    Smiling and waving and looking so fine
  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 28,958 Forumite
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    I'd transfer it - or if you wanted to avoid the fee/ part of the fee get a 0% spends card and effectively transfer for free - but can be a slippery slope.
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £174.8K Equity 32.77%
    2) £3K Net savings after CCs 6/7/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £22.5K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.1K) = 28.2/£127.5K target 22;12% updated 6/7
    4) FI Age 60 income target £16.5/30K 55.1%
    5) SIPP £4.6K updated 6/7/25
  • mark55man
    mark55man Posts: 8,205 Forumite
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    I agree about the slippery slope, its a good analogy- I put myself in the danger zone intentionally during the sabbatical but didn't quite think it through coming out of that into the most expensive time of year so have skidded a bit further down the slope than planned.  but its fine in the bigger picture - just a heftier stupid/lazy tax that I have had to pay for a while
    I think I saw you in an ice cream parlour
    Drinking milk shakes, cold and long
    Smiling and waving and looking so fine
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