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  • Humboldt
    Humboldt Posts: 416 Forumite
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    @mark55man glad that you enjoyed your mini break.  DH and I are going to view the festive displays in the big city next month.  Not been for a long time, so very much looking forward to it. Well done on the step count.  
  • alt80
    alt80 Posts: 4,638 Forumite
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    London is a great city at Christmas time, really miss what used to be practically a family tradition of a long weekend in London in December.
  • mark55man
    mark55man Posts: 8,207 Forumite
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    Thanks Alt and Humboldt

    We had fun - and we came across a number of xmas displays and markets that were fun to wonder around.  A day trip is a bit limiting but a long weekend could be fun!!
    I think I saw you in an ice cream parlour
    Drinking milk shakes, cold and long
    Smiling and waving and looking so fine
  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 28,958 Forumite
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    Well done on the steps. 

    I hope the return to work plan is not too hard on you.
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £174.8K Equity 32.77%
    2) £3K Net savings after CCs 6/7/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £22.5K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.1K) = 28.2/£127.5K target 22;12% updated 6/7
    4) FI Age 60 income target £16.5/30K 55.1%
    5) SIPP £4.6K updated 6/7/25
  • mark55man
    mark55man Posts: 8,207 Forumite
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    edited 24 November 2024 at 11:46AM
    Thanks SH - it was in at the deep end, but I am determined to work hard even though I am exhausted. 

    Although things have been difficult nationally, I genuinely see lots of promise ahead as we get closer to Europe and the USA isolationism forces us to be self reliant so lots of opportunity.  I will work through the winter then reconsider over Easter probably going half time part time for 12 months or so, while my OH finishes at her council work. 

    So maybe I've kicked the can down the road 18 months but following OH FIL passing away we will be getting a lump sum in the middle of next year and that means I don't need to take a lump sum from my pension.  In which case leaving taking it a bit later will be optimal for my plans - will possibly take out some insurance to cover the first 10 years to help cover OH should the worst happen, but that depends on T&C and cost.

    I've decided I'm going to keep this diary going until I'm done with work.  So kind of 5years +1 and maybe +1 more.  I don't think I have enough news to justify a new one.  I will do some 5 years analysis over the xmas break and then see if I need to reset any objectives now that financial ones are mainly sorted.  Expect more dieting and more steps!!
    I think I saw you in an ice cream parlour
    Drinking milk shakes, cold and long
    Smiling and waving and looking so fine
  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 28,958 Forumite
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    I think children and settling in to semi retirement once you're ready - will generate enough fodder for a diary. We remain interested at any rate.
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £174.8K Equity 32.77%
    2) £3K Net savings after CCs 6/7/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £22.5K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.1K) = 28.2/£127.5K target 22;12% updated 6/7
    4) FI Age 60 income target £16.5/30K 55.1%
    5) SIPP £4.6K updated 6/7/25
  • alt80
    alt80 Posts: 4,638 Forumite
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    Always good to hear from you mate. I don't trust myself (or my wife for that matter) to go to London and not spend big so we will be leaving that one for another year ha. Things are definitely more uncertain globally, it's easy to let the negative news spiral but as you say there will be opportunities too.
  • mark55man
    mark55man Posts: 8,207 Forumite
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    very true alt - lots of opportunities for example in social housing although those projects tend to be at a huge scale.  IMHO the main difference between the parties is that the Blues would take £1bn and spend it benefitting the top 1% and the Reds would spend that same £1.5bn trying to help those in need. 

    I think there will be some pain but also some money on the table for those who help the many who have been left behind a bit in the last 10 years.  By which I mean most people under 30 and those who mainly through no lack of trying are just not cutting it in the current (skewed!!) version of capitalism
    I think I saw you in an ice cream parlour
    Drinking milk shakes, cold and long
    Smiling and waving and looking so fine
  • f0xh0les
    f0xh0les Posts: 7,611 Forumite
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    You have an exit strategy. That should alleviate a lot of the stresses I would expect, but a great big Boo! to only having a week off at Christmas. 
    Glad you are mostly enjoying your work and the sociability bit must be nice.
    At least you didn't sit in the car park and think  " Oh God do I really have to keep on doing this until I am 70'.   
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