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Deeply troubled (╯-╰)

zehua
zehua Posts: 38 Forumite
in Marriage, relationships & families
Telling you something, recently met a girl. I think she is very good and would like to chase her. But after a period of contact, I found that she didn't seem to be willing to reply to my message at night. I don't know if I should pursue her. Because I don't know what she meant...
You can tell a lot about somebody,looking him in the eyes.
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  • Sea_Shell
    Sea_Shell Posts: 10,089 Forumite
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    Leave the poor girl alone. It comes across as a bit stalkerish to be honest. If she wants to contact you, she will. Do not CHASE her, do not PURSUE her!!!
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  • Barny1979
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    zehua wrote: »
    Because I don't know what she meant...

    What did she send? I thought you said she didn't reply?
  • trailingspouse
    trailingspouse Posts: 4,042 Forumite
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    What do you mean, if ever you don't reply to someone? There it is.
    No longer a spouse, or trailing, but MSE won't allow me to change my username...
  • zehua
    zehua Posts: 38 Forumite
    Barny1979 wrote: »
    What did she send? I thought you said she didn't reply?
    We chatted normally during the day, but after we got home from work. She doesn't seem to want to reply to any of my information.
    You can tell a lot about somebody,looking him in the eyes.
  • zehua
    zehua Posts: 38 Forumite
    Sea_Shell wrote: »
    Leave the poor girl alone. It comes across as a bit stalkerish to be honest. If she wants to contact you, she will. Do not CHASE her, do not PURSUE her!!!
    Very confused
    You can tell a lot about somebody,looking him in the eyes.
  • zehua
    zehua Posts: 38 Forumite
    trailingspouse wrote: »
    What do you mean, if ever you don't reply to someone? There it is.
    Sorry, I am busy with something.
    You can tell a lot about somebody,looking him in the eyes.
  • Barny1979
    Barny1979 Posts: 7,921 Forumite
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    zehua wrote: »
    We chatted normally during the day, but after we got home from work. She doesn't seem to want to reply to any of my information.
    How many messages have you sent without a response?
  • DCFC79
    DCFC79 Posts: 40,641 Forumite
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    zehua wrote: »
    Telling you something, recently met a girl. I think she is very good and would like to chase her. But after a period of contact, I found that she didn't seem to be willing to reply to my message at night. I don't know if I should pursue her. Because I don't know what she meant...

    Give her a break.

    Not sure where your from but chasing a girl is frowned upon in my book.
  • zehua
    zehua Posts: 38 Forumite
    Barny1979 wrote: »
    How many messages have you sent without a response?
    Every time I send two or three messages, if she does not reply. I will not send it anymore. Until the next day
    You can tell a lot about somebody,looking him in the eyes.
  • MovingForwards
    MovingForwards Posts: 17,164 Forumite
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    She isn't interested, stop messaging her.

    If you work with her, it's in your best interests not to contact her outside of work.

    Two or three messages each time, every day, is too much!
    Mortgage started 2020, aiming to clear 31/12/2029.
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