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  • slm6002
    slm6002 Posts: 4,379 Forumite
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    Glad you are giving it a try, plus a good idea to do it around the current job until you know that it will work.  Well done on paying so much off the mortgage :)
    Me, DD1 19, DS 17, DD2 14, Debt Free 04/18, Single Mum since 11/19
    Debt £2547.60 / £2547.60
  • newgirly
    newgirly Posts: 9,341 Forumite
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    Wow good for for you Jessy! I’m sure it will work out, hopefully you will feel a bit more appreciated too 😊 
    MFW 67 - Finally mortgage free! 💙😁
  • Good luck Jessy. And ex colleague did this and got so busy, she ended up taking on 5 staff in the first year 🙈
    Mortgage start date Nov 2014  - £90,545 over 25 years
    Re-mortgage Oct 2017 - 78,295 over 23 years
    Re-mortgage Jan 2020 - 55,000 over 26 years @ 1.94%
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    47893.35 - a reduction of £42,652 in just over 6 years!  


  • slm6002
    slm6002 Posts: 4,379 Forumite
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    Sorry to hear about the bully, why it always the bully who gets to stay and those being bullied have to look for other opportunities.  I hope your self employed business takes off quickly
    Me, DD1 19, DS 17, DD2 14, Debt Free 04/18, Single Mum since 11/19
    Debt £2547.60 / £2547.60
  • ladyholly
    ladyholly Posts: 3,934 Forumite
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    There are few things worse than having to work with a bully. Having done it several years ago I can heartily sympathise. I hope your boss can and does do something.
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,580 Ambassador
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    I loathe bullies. Glad you have two clients already. 
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  • QueenJess
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    edited 10 June 2024 at 7:53AM
    I’m so behind on reading diaries on here. Finally caught up on yours and am sorry to hear about work stress. I’ve seen a number of redundancies at firms I’ve worked at and even when it’s done right, the atmosphere can be horrible to work in. I would have suggested building up a client base before leaving, but looks like you’ve already done that :) Often having a plan B makes you feel so much better and you should definitely keep that in mind at work.

    It’s very poor that the bully is allowed to continue doing what they do. I find HR so variable. I always think that if I ever set up a company, I would actually treat people properly and with respect that’s so often missing at companies.

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