New me New start, Pania's positive Progress!

pania

el, on-line friend is an absolute honey... that doesn't sound bad at all. a clean break would've been easier but this way is better all round and lets us both seperate gradually with finances intact!!! thanks for the nice words. xxx

have you been to the hospital? i saw a promise on Hypnos thread? no that i'm nagging or owt mind.

pania

And please please please don't swat the lawnmower noise maker. remember under their nasty stings and beady eyes they all look like this really...

elantan

i dont kill them at all till about september time (as i know they are due to die then and will sting anything) i dont like killing them unless i have no choice managed to get this one out but oh my lord my adrenaline was pumping it was huge huge and even more huge ...

midges however the curse of Scotland i have no guilt whatsoever in killing ...


glad to hear you have a honey of an online friend makes life better

The_Dragon

pania wrote: »

el, on-line friend is an absolute honey... that doesn't sound bad at all. a clean break would've been easier but booting him out and him still paying the bill sis a far more MSE way of separating!!! thanks for the nice words. xxx

have you been to the hospital? i saw a promise on Hypnos thread? no that i'm nagging or owt mind.

Yep - having the bills paid as long as possible is a good call!

pania

oh god just realised that makes me sound reeeeally evil!! it's not like that i promise!!!! aaargh!!!! delete!delete!delete!

redsquirrel80

pania wrote: »

oh god just realised that makes me sound reeeeally evil!! it's not like that i promise!!!! aaargh!!!! delete!delete!delete!

Nooo not at all, it's far more sensible to do it slowly and sensibly (too many sensibles there) and however works for you. Quite a bit of my debt was run up when I left my ex - I went from paying minimal bills and share of a tiny mortgage to £400 a month rent (I seem to remember putting the deposit for my first rented flat of my own on my credit card ) and he got the proceeds from house sale that was all in his name! :rolleyes: It was worth it really, better than being stuck with the miserable b***** but far from ideal way of going about things!

pania

true.i think if i had walked on sunday i'd be in pieces right now, not knowing where to go on when, but at the mo i actually feel quite good. (except for now feeling exceedingly hungry after being teased by el with stories of pesto and tofu....

elantan

oh yeah it's all my fault lol

duchy

Glad to hear you're feeling chipper Pania
I suspect the "up" is because you've finally made a blooming decision-one you knew you'd have to make at some point. It's all positive stuff -a civilised split and one that isn't financially wrecking is the best way if both can handle it

Lemon_Tree

sorry to hear your news Pania, such a lot changed over this weekend. If you need a change of view or a chat you know where i live and you are welcome here anytime.

I was away with OH over the weekend in the big city, why does it always cost so much, now i know i've uttered that cry before. He's coming here another twice this month and i'm determined to enjoy his visit without it costing more than just time together.