Giving up/ Cutting Down Alcohol Thread Part 16

cathybird

loveasale, also, just wanted to say re "having a little play" with it, that makes me uneasy, don't do anything that will make you feel worse about yourself - it's easy for situations like this one to degenerate quite badly - it's better to feel you came out of it with some honour. I know you know this already xxx

sukeyboo

So very sorry to hear about your dog Arkers - he was obviously very much loved and it is lovely that you were with him to the end. I have had a similar experience with my two cats and held their paws when they crossed the Rainbow Bridge

4/12 for today please Shaggy & 1/5 for the weight loss challenge

maman

Sending you a huge hug Arkers. Sorry things are so hard for you but you know you made the right decision. :A

I'm uneasy about 'having a play' too loveasale. If what he's done is a deal breaker for you then I'd walk away rather than prolong things if they're already broken.:(

I had a planned drink last Thursday and it seems like an age away. I was AF yesterday and will be today.

4/10 AFDs please Shaggy.

Honey_Bear

Well done for being there, Arkers; very comforting for the dog even though it's hard on us. (((Hugs)))

Love a Sale, if the relationship is over, then it's over. If not, it needs to be repaired and that's always a possibility if you truly care about him. I'm not sure any of it's playful, though. Least said, soonest mended.

8/31 please, Shaggy.

arsenalbarnie

Thank you everyone for your wise and thoughtful words. That dreaded day will come round soon enough but am not anticipating anything in the near future. She has a nasty ear infection and burst eardrum, but am hoping we are getting somewhere with that now. She seems a lot brighter today. She is currently staring at me waiting for her dinner.

I have pulled a muscle in my stomach . Have been worrying myself silly thinking my stitches had burst inside. Anyway bit more reassured after seeing physio today. Have to start wearing big mummy knickers to help support my tummy. They’re real passion killers but lovely and comfortable :rotfl:

Calling in for 5/15 for this evening. Have had a really lazy day. It is so quiet with just me DD and the dogs here. Others back Friday and the peace will be shattered.

loveasale

No drink today )
Haven’t told a sole about the BF , not sure how I feel , so going to keep it that way for the next few days and take stock maybe over weekend,
6/20 2 snc

marahouti

4/21 and 2/4 SNC please Shaggy. Thank you. X

Honey_Bear

9/31 please, Shaggy.

sukeyboo

Declaring early on 5/12 please Shaggy

Arkers

Good morning everyone,

Loveasale definitely time to move on hard though it may be. Cheating BF is never a good thing. What has he said?

7 please Shaggy

Arkers x