Vorarephilia - anyone got experience?

tomstickland

That's quite a judgement to make. I don't see how it's not harmless. The options for acting it out are pretty limited.

bloomin_freezing

I have just googled this too! I thought I was pretty broadminded....

Did anyone else read in the papers/watch the cannibal programme on channel 5 the other night?? I wonder what fetish the guy had who wanted to be eaten/meet a grizzly most painful end as possible? Your OH may be a lovely guy but I would maybe consider your living arrangements for a while??

Good luck! Sleep well!!

arlybarly

phewww well ive seen it all now, i also had to google as never heard of it. i honestly think you should run a mile for your own sanitys sake.

affordmylife

I also googled it. I thought id heard of most things. Im not a prude but I cant see the fun/pleasure in that.

Sorry to be judgemental but i think its wierd and I would leave him. Sorry.

Maddie

I don't think it sounds that odd, especially if it's more on the line of legs being swallowed up by monsters rather than cutting up people and eating a la hannibal lecter.

It seems to me that you are ok with this (ie you've been ok with it for the last year), however the issue is actually that he is spending too much time pleasuring himself and you have been left feeling unsexy despite managing to do well with loosing weight.

Have you talked to him about this?

EDIT: just an after thought, you say this is the first time you've had privacy together, so is it also the first time he's had privacy to stay up on the computer, which could explain why he's being doing it all week.

benood

On the plus side I guess if your OH was a vora it would be a great incentive to lose weight. Christmas presents must be easy - chocolate fingers, nipples etc.

Have you suggested counselling or perhaps that he might visit his GP?

BallandChain

This guy sounds creepy and I would be worried for my safety. It's not uncommon for roleplayers to take it to the next level. I would urge Skint Catt to get rid of this guy ASAP.

keelykat

Well i dont know whether to google this or not now....

BallandChain

I've googled it as I've never heard about it. Here is the link for those not in the know:

http://furry.wikia.com/wiki/Vorarephilia

keelykat

Well it's new to me, ive come across a few things which i thought were a bit strange to me (no offence intended) but this seriously is one of the strangest.

I guess the amount of time he spends looking online/on the computer etc is the same as other men looking at !!!!!! instrad of having more intimate time with their OH's ...so this isnt good. If hes leaving you to go to bed alone so he can look at things, something obviously isnt right....

keely.