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  • Aranyani said:
    Aranyani said:
    So are you seeing anybody or taking any meds?
    yes taking meds.
    no not seeing anybody.

    Ok, you need to see somebody, urgently.  Go to your GP today, tell them everything, including the fact that you think your ex is a manifestation of the devil. 
    oh, i aint that loony mate

  • Comms69
    Comms69 Posts: 14,229 Forumite
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    Are you paying CM now?
  • Aranyani
    Aranyani Posts: 817 Forumite
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    Aranyani said:
    Aranyani said:
    So are you seeing anybody or taking any meds?
    yes taking meds.
    no not seeing anybody.

    Ok, you need to see somebody, urgently.  Go to your GP today, tell them everything, including the fact that you think your ex is a manifestation of the devil. 
    oh, i aint that loony mate

    I never said loony and never would, but your posts are not those of a mentally stable person that I would want to be alone with children, or anywhere near your ex.  
  • Comms69 said:
    Are you paying CM now?
    Been paying since seperation for over two years now. The CMS itself brings so many challenges, poor management, poor communication, poor everything... Sending demanding letters even after paying and agreeing stuff on the phone. So many examples of errors. It is unbelievable.

    Cant get through to them on the phone, send messages through their portal, lucky enough to even get a response back sometimes... 

    Who can we complain to for this incompetence?
    That is a gauntlet itself. 
    There's companies out there that deal with all this headache for you for a fee off course. 
  • Aranyani said:
    Aranyani said:
    Aranyani said:
    So are you seeing anybody or taking any meds?
    yes taking meds.
    no not seeing anybody.

    Ok, you need to see somebody, urgently.  Go to your GP today, tell them everything, including the fact that you think your ex is a manifestation of the devil. 
    oh, i aint that loony mate

    I never said loony and never would, but your posts are not those of a mentally stable person that I would want to be alone with children, or anywhere near your ex.  
    I'm not going to deny It has affected me mentally, it's not exactly a happy life. Still we strive and struggle, try to remain resilient and try and pull ourselves up again everytime I'm knocked down. 
    You say it in a way I should not be allowed to see my kid?
    Fathers have rights too you know? 
  • Aranyani
    Aranyani Posts: 817 Forumite
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    Aranyani said:
    Aranyani said:
    Aranyani said:
    So are you seeing anybody or taking any meds?
    yes taking meds.
    no not seeing anybody.

    Ok, you need to see somebody, urgently.  Go to your GP today, tell them everything, including the fact that you think your ex is a manifestation of the devil. 
    oh, i aint that loony mate

    I never said loony and never would, but your posts are not those of a mentally stable person that I would want to be alone with children, or anywhere near your ex.  
    I'm not going to deny It has affected me mentally, it's not exactly a happy life. Still we strive and struggle, try to remain resilient and try and pull ourselves up again everytime I'm knocked down. 
    You say it in a way I should not be allowed to see my kid?
    Fathers have rights too you know? 
    Children have more rights than fathers. 

    Do you think it would be good for your child to be alone with you in the state you are in now?
  • Aranyani said:
    Aranyani said:
    Aranyani said:
    Aranyani said:
    So are you seeing anybody or taking any meds?
    yes taking meds.
    no not seeing anybody.

    Ok, you need to see somebody, urgently.  Go to your GP today, tell them everything, including the fact that you think your ex is a manifestation of the devil. 
    oh, i aint that loony mate

    I never said loony and never would, but your posts are not those of a mentally stable person that I would want to be alone with children, or anywhere near your ex.  
    I'm not going to deny It has affected me mentally, it's not exactly a happy life. Still we strive and struggle, try to remain resilient and try and pull ourselves up again everytime I'm knocked down. 
    You say it in a way I should not be allowed to see my kid?
    Fathers have rights too you know? 
    Children have more rights than fathers. 

    Do you think it would be good for your child to be alone with you in the state you are in now?
    Yes off course!

  • elsien
    elsien Posts: 36,199 Forumite
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    There's an igore button on here if you want it. 
    All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well.

    Pedant alert - it's could have, not could of.
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