Child Maintenance 13 September 2018 at 9:46PM edited 13 September 2018 at 9:49PM in MoneySaving Dads 48 replies 7.7K views

Mr_GoldMine

Aranyani said:

Mr_GoldMine said:

Aranyani said:

So are you seeing anybody or taking any meds?

yes taking meds.

no not seeing anybody.

Ok, you need to see somebody, urgently.  Go to your GP today, tell them everything, including the fact that you think your ex is a manifestation of the devil. 

oh, i aint that loony mate

Comms69

Are you paying CM now?

Aranyani

Mr_GoldMine said:

Aranyani said:

Mr_GoldMine said:

Aranyani said:

So are you seeing anybody or taking any meds?

yes taking meds.

no not seeing anybody.

Ok, you need to see somebody, urgently.  Go to your GP today, tell them everything, including the fact that you think your ex is a manifestation of the devil. 

oh, i aint that loony mate

I never said loony and never would, but your posts are not those of a mentally stable person that I would want to be alone with children, or anywhere near your ex.  

Mr_GoldMine

Comms69 said:

Are you paying CM now?

Been paying since seperation for over two years now. The CMS itself brings so many challenges, poor management, poor communication, poor everything... Sending demanding letters even after paying and agreeing stuff on the phone. So many examples of errors. It is unbelievable.

Cant get through to them on the phone, send messages through their portal, lucky enough to even get a response back sometimes... 

Who can we complain to for this incompetence?
That is a gauntlet itself. 
There's companies out there that deal with all this headache for you for a fee off course. 

Mr_GoldMine

Aranyani said:

Mr_GoldMine said:

Aranyani said:

Mr_GoldMine said:

Aranyani said:

So are you seeing anybody or taking any meds?

yes taking meds.

no not seeing anybody.

Ok, you need to see somebody, urgently.  Go to your GP today, tell them everything, including the fact that you think your ex is a manifestation of the devil. 

oh, i aint that loony mate

I never said loony and never would, but your posts are not those of a mentally stable person that I would want to be alone with children, or anywhere near your ex.  

I'm not going to deny It has affected me mentally, it's not exactly a happy life. Still we strive and struggle, try to remain resilient and try and pull ourselves up again everytime I'm knocked down. 
You say it in a way I should not be allowed to see my kid?
Fathers have rights too you know? 

Aranyani

Mr_GoldMine said:

Aranyani said:

Mr_GoldMine said:

Aranyani said:

Mr_GoldMine said:

Aranyani said:

So are you seeing anybody or taking any meds?

yes taking meds.

no not seeing anybody.

Ok, you need to see somebody, urgently.  Go to your GP today, tell them everything, including the fact that you think your ex is a manifestation of the devil. 

oh, i aint that loony mate

I never said loony and never would, but your posts are not those of a mentally stable person that I would want to be alone with children, or anywhere near your ex.  

I'm not going to deny It has affected me mentally, it's not exactly a happy life. Still we strive and struggle, try to remain resilient and try and pull ourselves up again everytime I'm knocked down. 
You say it in a way I should not be allowed to see my kid?
Fathers have rights too you know? 

Children have more rights than fathers. 

Do you think it would be good for your child to be alone with you in the state you are in now?

Mr_GoldMine

Aranyani said:

Mr_GoldMine said:

Aranyani said:

Mr_GoldMine said:

Aranyani said:

Mr_GoldMine said:

Aranyani said:

So are you seeing anybody or taking any meds?

yes taking meds.

no not seeing anybody.

Ok, you need to see somebody, urgently.  Go to your GP today, tell them everything, including the fact that you think your ex is a manifestation of the devil. 

oh, i aint that loony mate

I never said loony and never would, but your posts are not those of a mentally stable person that I would want to be alone with children, or anywhere near your ex.  

I'm not going to deny It has affected me mentally, it's not exactly a happy life. Still we strive and struggle, try to remain resilient and try and pull ourselves up again everytime I'm knocked down. 
You say it in a way I should not be allowed to see my kid?
Fathers have rights too you know? 

Children have more rights than fathers. 

Do you think it would be good for your child to be alone with you in the state you are in now?

Yes off course!

elsien

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