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Girlfriend Unemployed

claremont1993 · 2018-09-06 18:37:30

Hi there, My girlfriend graduated from university in July and has struggled to find any work. I work 37.5 hours a week therefore she does not recieve any benefits due to living with me? Her last student loan payment was June. I've been paying the rent, bills and food for the both of us on my own since July. It is starting…

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tomtom256 Posts: 2,250 Forumite

8 September 2018 at 8:16AM

Wow, OP is a catch and I would love to be their partner.

If you live together and in a relationship the idea is that you support each other etc.

Why would you not do this?

I understand that you get fed up supporting your partner, but unless you discuss it, like adults, she will not know how you feel.

Grow a pair and discuss the problem like adults.

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