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Weekly Flylady Thread 4th June 2018

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  • kazwookie
    kazwookie Posts: 14,280 Forumite
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    Lawns are now cut, boy that was hard work, as OH 'forgot' to do them for 4 weeks I was away, although he promised to do them....................words have been had.
    OH has now gone out on his new motorbike, it seems while I was away he part ex his old bike for a 2nd hand new one............no wonder the lawns didn't get cut!

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  • Wednesday

    Breakfast out with relatives in the morning, hubby home all day (but he has homework to do) I need to prep for an inspection and 2 visits for work in the afternoon.
    Home in the evening, so should make the most of it.

    This week:
    Monday: [STRIKE]work from home [/STRIKE]
    Tuesday: [STRIKE]Extended family day out[/STRIKE]
    Wednesday:[STRIKE]Work from home[/STRIKE]
    Thursday: reserved for supply teaching
    Friday: Be a Mum
    Saturday: family day
    Sunday: Family day

    To do

    Must
    Va[STRIKE]c pac the flipping spare bedding!!! 3 weeks this has been needing to be done.[/STRIKE] :j :j :j
    [STRIKE]Cleaner proof the house [/STRIKE](please don't sack me from this thread for having a cleaner)
    [STRIKE]Washing[/STRIKE]
    Stuff to cellar
    [STRIKE]Stuff to loft[/STRIKE]

    Should
    Strip wallpaper

    Could


    Extra


    I need to consult the flying list, I shall edit later. have consulted list, not going to add to the list now as 'cleaner proofing the house is a serious job.

    Happy flying

    Wish.

    Breakfast was lovely, work was frustrating, Flying was acceptable.
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  • Thursday already (well nearly) and I've not been booked for supply, so a full day of flying could be on the cards. Going to keep my list realistic though.

    This week:
    Monday: [STRIKE]work from home [/STRIKE]
    Tuesday: [STRIKE]Extended family day out[/STRIKE]
    Wednesday:[STRIKE]Work from home[/STRIKE]
    Thursday: reserved for supply teaching
    Friday: Be a Mum
    Saturday: family day
    Sunday: Family day

    To do

    Must
    Take stuff to cellar
    Sort meat in fridge freezer
    Strip wall paper in bedroom
    Sort files for work trip next week

    Should
    Sort through 1 cupboard of wardrobe

    Could
    Take radiator off bedroom wall


    Extra


    Happy flying

    Wish.
    Outstanding mortgage: £23,181 (December 19)
    MFW 2020 Challenge Member #10 0/£2318
  • Valli
    Valli Posts: 25,498 Forumite
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    flying today - cleaned a classroom carpet a Y3 had upchucked on.
    WUDULTD
    Pegged out some washing
    Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY
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  • Valli wrote: »
    flying today - cleaned a classroom carpet a Y3 had upchucked on.
    WUDULTD
    Pegged out some washing

    Blinking year 3's - always the worse!!!
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  • YORKSHIRELASS
    YORKSHIRELASS Posts: 6,473 Forumite
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    Mum a tractor has just run over my mobile. This phone call from DS (on his mates phone because his is now destroyed) sums up how my day has been.

    Phone cost £120 and is not even 2 months old. Oh and car MOT bill will be £350.

    I am off to bed.
  • Mum a tractor has just run over my mobile. This phone call from DS (on his mates phone because his is now destroyed) sums up how my day has been.

    Phone cost £120 and is not even 2 months old. Oh and car MOT bill will be £350.

    I am off to bed.

    At least it wasn't 'Is that YLJunior's Mum? A tractor has just run him over'.


    Himself is not working. Again. He did four hours and then threw a massive panic attack and now 'can't do it'. He has been instructed to go to the effing doctor, as this is taking the absolute effing something (as he's managed to go to rehearsal with stressy band for a stressy gig in a stressy location tomorrow).

    I can't see how doing something properly stressful is doable if something less enjoyable but actually helps pay the bills isn't - and I can't help but feel that it's more wanting to stay cosy and happy whilst somebody else does all the work and grown up things than it is something medical. In short, I suspect he's now saying he'll do something about it in the hope I'll say 'oh, you're ill, don't worry your pretty little head, I'll look after you' and never mention earning an effing living and paying one's effing way ever again.


    I'm at the end of my tether. I don't want to cause any harm to him if I'm wrong and it's normal for a mental illness to do things I would find incredibly stressful (travel, strange places, people, band politics and NOT GETTING PAID FOR ANY OF IT when somebody else is being worked into the ground to feed, clothe and house you), but I just cannot reconcile this in my head.


    And he knows it. Because I've told him very clearly.
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  • atypicalblonde
    atypicalblonde Posts: 3,057 Forumite
    Morning All

    Have been wide awake since 3.30 as a) I have a horrid cough and can't sleep b) it's the funeral today and c) money worries causing anxiety issues to go through the roof. If anyone has a spare £5k on their magic money tree I would really appreciate it.

    Waiting until 5.15 then will walk the dog.

    Posivibes for today please x
    MFW :)
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  • Mademoiselle
    Mademoiselle Posts: 1,363 Forumite
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    Not working this morning, so I need to concentrate on insurance claim for rental house which is rapidly turning into a frog and washing.
    I am up and showered, just need to go and get dressed.
    Still on target with the evening walks, 3 out of 3 so far and last nights ended up being very brisk at the end as the conversation went 'it feels like rain', it really feels like rain' and we were the furthest from home so the pace quickened as a few very heavy drops came down and we were in just before the heavens opened.
    Fayolle, I hope you manage to get your OH out.
    Off to finish dressing
    xx
  • YORKSHIRELASS
    YORKSHIRELASS Posts: 6,473 Forumite
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    At least it wasn't 'Is that YLJunior's Mum? A tractor has just run him over'.

    This is true. Athough if the man cutting the grass at the sports field could not see the big pile of bags, shoes and sweatshirts that belonged to the kids playing football all I can say is that it is a good job he was not lying in the grass.

    Checking in to send big supportive hugs to atb x I am beyond worrying about money now, the amount that is going out of our account every month is ridiculous.

    Loonng day again at the paid stuff so best get moving. Just going to quickly order a food shop. DH is taking me to work as I have no car at the moment.
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