Marage breakup due to financial infidelity

Danb79

I've talked to shelter because my name is on the tenancy agreement with her I'm not classed as homeless so no one will help. Will check the link

Savvy_Sue

My concern would be that NOT reporting the fraud might make the OP complicit / guilty with her when it comes to light...

FBaby

If she's decided the marriage is over, then someone will have to move out and it will have to be you or her.

If she's not working any longer and neither are you, how are you supporting yourself?

If the marriage is over and your wife can't work, would you be in a better position to look for a job and move out? How old is the youngest child?

HampshireH

It is highly unlikely you will be allowed to remove ypur name from the tenancy whilst there are arrears on the account.

Most HA won't permit a tenancy transfer until the account is cleared.

I suggest speaking to your 'LL

Have you actually had a conversation about her fraudulent claims. Has she tried to justify this at All?

Danb79

She justified it by saying it was for bills but then there is store cards for Freeman's and simply be....

Currently it's me that's looking to get back to work and move out she's trying to force me out she called the police in when it all kicked off and were arguing and has removed all traces of me from the home pictures on walls trinkets we've given each other over the years ect along with all my possessions and packed it into bags piled up in the living room, I've told her I'm staying untill I get to a position I can get my own place.

We were on benifits and I was her carer, now we have to reclaim separately as co-habiters

The youngest is 13

Takeaway_Addict

Danb79 wrote: »

She justified it by saying it was for bills but then there is store cards for Freeman's and simply be....

Currently it's me that's looking to get back to work and move out she's trying to force me out she called the police in when it all kicked off and were arguing and has removed all traces of me from the home pictures on walls trinkets we've given each other over the years ect along with all my possessions and packed it into bags piled up in the living room, I've told her I'm staying untill I get to a position I can get my own place.

We were on benifits and I was her carer, now we have to reclaim separately as co-habiters

The youngest is 13

Seriously Dan go get help from those links because frankly you're getting walked all over and justifying all her actions.


She will destroy you

elsien

Out of interest, have you asked her where she thinks you should move d to and how you are expected to pay for it now she's trashed your credit history?

Danb79

She wants me out now, I think she is telling my eldest that sheet can't cope with me here, me and my eldest had talked day before yesterday and I'd explained to her what's happening and me and her were ok but today out of the blue she messaged me saying I should just leave! We talked again and sorted it. My wife doesn't seem to care or understand what she's done, she thinks the bank won't be able to tell it was her

Danb79

She says I should goto my mum's as she has a big house but me and her don't have a great relationship and hardly see her plus it wouldn't feel right not being able to pay my way and she lives 15 miles away in another town, her parents however has two empty rooms and she's close to them and they are just down the road

pearl123

Don't leave. Just wait until it all calms down a bit. The a route forward might become more clear. CAB might be of some use.