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Weekly Flylady Thread 2nd April
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What is FLYLADY? Well, it's our version of the US flylady idea - but we work on the principle that housework is not fun, it's boring, can be time-consuming, is often thankless but, unfortunately, necessary. It's here on Old Style to provide the support we all need and to make the whole task easier and quicker. We also accept that, sometimes, life just gets on top of us and we can't keep up, maybe because we're time-poor, not in the best of health and/or we have littlies who need us. We are definitely NOT control freaks aiming for perfection and utterly spotless show-homes.
Welcome to the weekly Flylady Thread. You're more than welcome to join us in the everlasting battle against dust, grime and gibble. The aim of our thread is to make those onerous tasks less daunting, and to support each other - and to make time for the finer things in life!
Please do remember we have to abide by MSE rules; each post should, ideally, include some mention of flying.[/COLOR]
Thank you Natty for last week's thread
Please follow the forum rules on this thread as Flylady has been here a LONG time and is a fabulous support and resource for lots of us. All posts should have some Flylady-related (ooh a compound adjective) content!
The idea is that even if you are really busy you don't need to fall off the wagon!
Every room comes back around next week so please don!!!8217;t stress about catching up
These lists are only suggestions and not a must do list; you are more than welcome to post and follow your own lists.
Also adding a declutter mission each day will help to gradually clear the clutter and make flying easier.
A few of the basics before we start the week
Hotspots are areas where if one thing gets put there, loads of other things follow!
Daily routines are anything you need to do on a daily basis like washing, swish and swipe kitchen and bathroom, ironing, making beds, vacuuming high traffic areas, making meals etc.
Night-time routines are all things which make getting ready in the morning easier, preparing clothes for the next day, making lunches, swish & swipes of the kitchen and tidying the living room before you go to bed plus personals like shower/brush teeth etc.
Fling Boogie - stick on some loud music, grab a bin bag and whiz around the house finding items that can go out with the rubbish, recycling, for charity shop, basically anything that will stop it cluttering your home.
Swish and swipe/S&S means have a quick wipe over an area such as a sink or toilet to prevent the build up of dirt. This is usually done on a daily basis
HHE/HHC/HHI Half Hour exercise/challenge/ironing ... run around for 30 minutes to the Benny Hill music frantically cleaning exercising or ironing.. other music may be used if you prefer!
WM ~ Washing machine
TD ~ Tumble dryer
SC ~ Slowcooker
BM ~ Breadmaker
DW ~ Dishwasher
SOAADFA ~ Sit on 'bottom' and do 'nothing'
KH/XH/FW ~ Ex-husband and other not so polite versions
DH/DD/DS/DW/DP ~ Dear husband/daughter/son/wife/partner/whatever
OH/SO ~ Other half/significant other
NN ~ nice neighbour
Toxic (friend/mother/sister/whoever) ~ person in your life that seems to exist to make your life miserable
AF ~ Aunt Flo 'time of the month'.. nothing to do with flying but it comes up often.
ETA ~ Edited to add
Gibble ~ miscellaneous crap that appears forever homeless
Dot-to-dot ~ pick a small area (not a whole room) like a chair/coffee/table/shelf/worktop or wherever- thats your first 'dot' - totally clear it - clean it - and only put back what should be there - deal with what you have removed (not just move it somewhere else) then if you have time move on and do the same to another 'dot' -the idea is just like a dot to dot puzzle, you aim to join up all the dots and have a tidy room. The trick is to keep each dot tidy until you get them all joined up! All credit to AnW's Mum for this one
RoD ~ Room of Doom, the one room that feels like it is a permanent pit and cannot be used to its potential!
MAD half hour
- Mad is the abbreviation for Make A Difference.
The idea is that you have a Forth bridge (ie never-ending - or just huge) task but that you work on it in half-hour bursts. This way you know you ARE stooping, and that you won't get it finished but you will make a difference - so it might be clearing out - the garage or shed, or clothes sorting, or weeding - you get the picture - but rather than keep going until you've lost the will to live you do half an hour...but, eventually those half hours will get the job done!
Mr S/A/T/M/L/Al - supermarkets Sainsburys, Asda, Tesco, Morrisons, Lidl, Aldi. You get the picture!!
Click here to read Toots wonderful welcome guide
ok Here goes this Week...
(Bank Holiday Monday = day off;))
Twinkly Tuesday - Kitchen and dining room
Level One
Declutter and mop/vacuum the floors
Clear and wipe the worksurfaces
Wipe the cupboard door and drawer handles open drawers and doors and wipe the tops, too
Level Two
Wipe the big appliances and units.. don't forget kickboards!
Wipe small appliances and replace.. do one thoroughly.. descale or decrumb or degunge!
Clear a sticky dishevelled cupboard - empty, wipe it out and put back only what lives there tidily
Level Three
Wipe the table and replace the cloth if necessary.
Binbag dance!
Clean the oven and hob.
Extras
Clean blinds/curtains and light fittings
Wash the windows
HHI
Take a post Bank Holiday freezer/fridge inventory and see if you can start using it up/ need to replace/throw
Work on challenges - MAD half hour
Make sure you have cards - or know what you need to buy for birthdays etc this month
Wednesday Wipe Day - Bathroom/cloakroom/shower room/en suite
Level 1
Open the window
Flush the loo and bung some cleaner down there
Empty Bin
remove any detritis
Scrub the loo and wipe the outside with a clean cloth, not forgetting handles/levers/buttons
Level 2
Wipe out the bath and/or shower paying special attention to gungy areas round taps etc
Wipe shower heads
Wipe shower tubing
Polish taps
Clean screens/wash/replace shower curtains
Level 3
Dust all dust traps inc licht fittings and blind/curtain rails
Polish mirrors
scrub sink and clean rounf taps
Wipe all handles and light pulls
Clean floor
Put clean towels etc out
Extras
Clean window
S&S kitchen
MAD half hour
HHI
Thursday Thriils - lovely sunny day (here anyway - use it on you)
The BOUDOIR
Level 1
Open the window
strip the bed
clear the floordrobe/chairdrobe
Take out the trash
Level 2
Make the bed
Clean the window
Vacuum/sweep/mop the floor
Level 3
Dust everywhere
Polish mirrors
wipe your lotions and potions with a damp cloth
Extras
Peg out some washing
HHI
S&S kitchen
S&S bathroom
do a MAD half hour - H2H or Toots list tasks
Fabulous Friday - pick a neglected room - kids room/guest room
Level 1
Open the window
Strip the bed
clear out gibble and garbage - FERLINNG!
Level 2
Use a just-damp cloth and wipe sockets, switches and handles
Clean windows and mirrors
Re-make bed
Vacuum/sweep/mop floors
Level 3
Dust everywhere
Waggle a cobwebs brush into corners and light fittings
Check all lighting etc is fully functional especially if it's a guest room
Extras
Clear that ironing mountain
If the kids are back at school Monday (ugh) THIS is your MAD half hour list
1 - Start hunting for the elusive P.E. kit, bookbags, homework etc
2 - Check lunchboxes/bags are clean and dry; make sure you have any pack-up stuff you'll need. (If you are in the south do you have bread and sandwich fillings etc?)
3 - Check school clothes are washed and ironed and not scrunched up in a bag somewhere - if the kids are old enough this could/should be their task.
4 - Check school website/newsletters for key date information and add to calendar - always lots on in Summer Term - when is Sports Day?
5 - Have you got change/cheques for dinner (lunch) money?
S&S kitchen
S&S bathroom
MAD half hour
Welcome to the weekly Flylady Thread. You're more than welcome to join us in the everlasting battle against dust, grime and gibble. The aim of our thread is to make those onerous tasks less daunting, and to support each other - and to make time for the finer things in life!
Please do remember we have to abide by MSE rules; each post should, ideally, include some mention of flying.[/COLOR]
Thank you Natty for last week's thread
Please follow the forum rules on this thread as Flylady has been here a LONG time and is a fabulous support and resource for lots of us. All posts should have some Flylady-related (ooh a compound adjective) content!
The idea is that even if you are really busy you don't need to fall off the wagon!
Every room comes back around next week so please don!!!8217;t stress about catching up
These lists are only suggestions and not a must do list; you are more than welcome to post and follow your own lists.
Also adding a declutter mission each day will help to gradually clear the clutter and make flying easier.
A few of the basics before we start the week
Hotspots are areas where if one thing gets put there, loads of other things follow!
Daily routines are anything you need to do on a daily basis like washing, swish and swipe kitchen and bathroom, ironing, making beds, vacuuming high traffic areas, making meals etc.
Night-time routines are all things which make getting ready in the morning easier, preparing clothes for the next day, making lunches, swish & swipes of the kitchen and tidying the living room before you go to bed plus personals like shower/brush teeth etc.
Fling Boogie - stick on some loud music, grab a bin bag and whiz around the house finding items that can go out with the rubbish, recycling, for charity shop, basically anything that will stop it cluttering your home.
Swish and swipe/S&S means have a quick wipe over an area such as a sink or toilet to prevent the build up of dirt. This is usually done on a daily basis
HHE/HHC/HHI Half Hour exercise/challenge/ironing ... run around for 30 minutes to the Benny Hill music frantically cleaning exercising or ironing.. other music may be used if you prefer!
WM ~ Washing machine
TD ~ Tumble dryer
SC ~ Slowcooker
BM ~ Breadmaker
DW ~ Dishwasher
SOAADFA ~ Sit on 'bottom' and do 'nothing'
KH/XH/FW ~ Ex-husband and other not so polite versions
DH/DD/DS/DW/DP ~ Dear husband/daughter/son/wife/partner/whatever
OH/SO ~ Other half/significant other
NN ~ nice neighbour
Toxic (friend/mother/sister/whoever) ~ person in your life that seems to exist to make your life miserable
AF ~ Aunt Flo 'time of the month'.. nothing to do with flying but it comes up often.
ETA ~ Edited to add
Gibble ~ miscellaneous crap that appears forever homeless
Dot-to-dot ~ pick a small area (not a whole room) like a chair/coffee/table/shelf/worktop or wherever- thats your first 'dot' - totally clear it - clean it - and only put back what should be there - deal with what you have removed (not just move it somewhere else) then if you have time move on and do the same to another 'dot' -the idea is just like a dot to dot puzzle, you aim to join up all the dots and have a tidy room. The trick is to keep each dot tidy until you get them all joined up! All credit to AnW's Mum for this one
RoD ~ Room of Doom, the one room that feels like it is a permanent pit and cannot be used to its potential!
MAD half hour
- Mad is the abbreviation for Make A Difference.
The idea is that you have a Forth bridge (ie never-ending - or just huge) task but that you work on it in half-hour bursts. This way you know you ARE stooping, and that you won't get it finished but you will make a difference - so it might be clearing out - the garage or shed, or clothes sorting, or weeding - you get the picture - but rather than keep going until you've lost the will to live you do half an hour...but, eventually those half hours will get the job done!
Mr S/A/T/M/L/Al - supermarkets Sainsburys, Asda, Tesco, Morrisons, Lidl, Aldi. You get the picture!!
Click here to read Toots wonderful welcome guide
ok Here goes this Week...
(Bank Holiday Monday = day off;))
Twinkly Tuesday - Kitchen and dining room
Level One
Declutter and mop/vacuum the floors
Clear and wipe the worksurfaces
Wipe the cupboard door and drawer handles open drawers and doors and wipe the tops, too
Level Two
Wipe the big appliances and units.. don't forget kickboards!
Wipe small appliances and replace.. do one thoroughly.. descale or decrumb or degunge!
Clear a sticky dishevelled cupboard - empty, wipe it out and put back only what lives there tidily
Level Three
Wipe the table and replace the cloth if necessary.
Binbag dance!
Clean the oven and hob.
Extras
Clean blinds/curtains and light fittings
Wash the windows
HHI
Take a post Bank Holiday freezer/fridge inventory and see if you can start using it up/ need to replace/throw
Work on challenges - MAD half hour
Make sure you have cards - or know what you need to buy for birthdays etc this month
Wednesday Wipe Day - Bathroom/cloakroom/shower room/en suite
Level 1
Open the window
Flush the loo and bung some cleaner down there
Empty Bin
remove any detritis
Scrub the loo and wipe the outside with a clean cloth, not forgetting handles/levers/buttons
Level 2
Wipe out the bath and/or shower paying special attention to gungy areas round taps etc
Wipe shower heads
Wipe shower tubing
Polish taps
Clean screens/wash/replace shower curtains
Level 3
Dust all dust traps inc licht fittings and blind/curtain rails
Polish mirrors
scrub sink and clean rounf taps
Wipe all handles and light pulls
Clean floor
Put clean towels etc out
Extras
Clean window
S&S kitchen
MAD half hour
HHI
Thursday Thriils - lovely sunny day (here anyway - use it on you)
The BOUDOIR
Level 1
Open the window
strip the bed
clear the floordrobe/chairdrobe
Take out the trash
Level 2
Make the bed
Clean the window
Vacuum/sweep/mop the floor
Level 3
Dust everywhere
Polish mirrors
wipe your lotions and potions with a damp cloth
Extras
Peg out some washing
HHI
S&S kitchen
S&S bathroom
do a MAD half hour - H2H or Toots list tasks
Fabulous Friday - pick a neglected room - kids room/guest room
Level 1
Open the window
Strip the bed
clear out gibble and garbage - FERLINNG!
Level 2
Use a just-damp cloth and wipe sockets, switches and handles
Clean windows and mirrors
Re-make bed
Vacuum/sweep/mop floors
Level 3
Dust everywhere
Waggle a cobwebs brush into corners and light fittings
Check all lighting etc is fully functional especially if it's a guest room
Extras
Clear that ironing mountain
If the kids are back at school Monday (ugh) THIS is your MAD half hour list
1 - Start hunting for the elusive P.E. kit, bookbags, homework etc
2 - Check lunchboxes/bags are clean and dry; make sure you have any pack-up stuff you'll need. (If you are in the south do you have bread and sandwich fillings etc?)
3 - Check school clothes are washed and ironed and not scrunched up in a bag somewhere - if the kids are old enough this could/should be their task.
4 - Check school website/newsletters for key date information and add to calendar - always lots on in Summer Term - when is Sports Day?
5 - Have you got change/cheques for dinner (lunch) money?
S&S kitchen
S&S bathroom
MAD half hour
Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY
"I would like more sisters, that the taking out of one, might not leave such stillness" Emily Dickinson
Janice 1964-2016
Thank you Honey Bear


Thank you Honey Bear
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Ionafan 1st 11lb
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NattyDon't put it DOWN; put it AWAY"I would like more sisters, that the taking out of one, might not leave such stillness" Emily DickinsonJanice 1964-2016
Thank you Honey Bear0 -
assuming scrimpers want to continue to scrimp?Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY"I would like more sisters, that the taking out of one, might not leave such stillness" Emily Dickinson
Janice 1964-2016
Thank you Honey Bear0 -
I'm trying super hard to scrip this month.. and am 2lb down in the slinkies (24lb total gone so far) and the flymarketeering I really need to pull my finger out.. I only got £130 during March.. that's rubbish!!
thank you for Fred
HB... huge hugs for the sad news xxx
LW... confiscate his toys.. I regularly have to take OHs phone off him.. they are such children!
Been to OH's mother today to surprise her.. she 'isn't fit' for visitors but if we lived round the corner we would have been there before now, since her op, and we arent visitors, we are family ... thats different!!
Anyway.. I'm in. we have a car boot full for CS, the recycling is being put out right now. I have a landing to clear this week.. it is my mission.. and I need to start painting DD3's room. I also have Mount Washmore to work my merry way through.. and I need to pay 100 bills, find £500 and sort out OH's finances.. Easy stuff right?LB moment 10/06 Debt Free date 6/6/14Hope to be debt free until the day I dieMortgage-free Wannabee (05/08/30)6/6/14 £72,454.65 (5.65% int.)08/12/2023 £33602.00 (4.81% int.)0 -
I'm in - thanks Valli :A
HB - huge hugs to you and DH xx Devil Cat had the best possible life thanks to you both xx
Today I have cleaned kitchen worktops, WM x 1 and WU then decluttered several episodes of various TV progs
List for tomorrow . . . . .
Twinkly Tuesday - Kitchen
Level One
Declutter and vacuum the floor
Wipe the cupboard door and drawer handles open drawers and doors and wipe the tops, too
Level Two
Wipe the big appliances and units.. don't forget kickboards!
Wipe small appliances and replace..
Clear a sticky dishevelled cupboard - empty, wipe it out and put back only what lives there tidily
Level Three
Binbag dance!
Clean the oven and hob.
Work on challenges - MAD half hour"There's only one way of life and that's your own" - Levellers
"I'm feeling like a Monday but someday I'll be Saturday night" - Bon Jovi0 -
(((Hugs))) HB I hope you can find comfort in the fact that you gave him a great life and made the right decision when it became necessary.
I’m in. Slinky challenge - I have no scales:j because I’m sure I’ve put on not lost weight since January. All my clothes are too small. Must find a gym tomorrow.
Scrimpers - OMG yes. We’re running two houses and have just had to buy a whole load of furniture. OUCH. Every penny counts.
Hovel2Haven - the landlord painted everything after the old tenant left. We unpacked the last box. Now to try and keep it this tidy. I don’t have high hopes.
I went out to an AA meeting. Got back and DH had hoovered. He says he’s aware of how little he’s done in the past 5 years (exams and thesis writing) so he’s going to make a conscious effort to help. Anyone want to lay a bet on how long this will last?:rotfl:
Tomorrow I have a long list of utility/council/water phone calls to make to get everything set up. And some paid stuff to do.
We haven’t been here long enough for the kitchen to need much. And it’s tiny. Flying will certainly be quicker here:TGoals - Weight loss 6/26lb at 22nd Jan 18Mmmm. 26lb at 1/7/18. Oops:o0 -
HB more hugs coming your way, you have both done so well to make Devil Cat's last months as good as they could be.
Have had a very lazy but rather enjoyable Easter. Was great NOT to go for a run before church on Sunday. I did go to Clubbercise today and .....got rather tired towards the end. Started a report but should have done loads more. Went to see some friends. Ate too much chocolate. Watched too much TV.
Am now getting paperwork ready for tomorrow's assessment. Will have to work super hard this week as I'm on a motorbike rally in Somerset next w/e, going down there on Fri (150 miles), doing the 150 mile rally/treasure hunt whatever it is on Sat and coming home Sun. Can't imagine why I agreed to go, even though weather forecast is for it to be better. Almost hope it rains harder so even Mr N won't want to go, but that would be mean to the inhabitants of Somerset so I won't do a rain dance.Remember...a layer of dust protects the wood beneath it.0 -
Sending the biggest hugs your way HB & to your DH too.. Devil Cat was blessed to have had 2 exceptional human beans that loved and cared for him unconditionally.. :lovethoug"There's a little witch in all of us"🔮🪬🧿DEBT FREE 06/2018Mrs SD’s Decluttering 2025 ⭐️ 🥇0
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Honey Bear and Mr Honey Bear - your care was so good he stayed even longer... thinking of you both xxxDon't put it DOWN; put it AWAY"I would like more sisters, that the taking out of one, might not leave such stillness" Emily Dickinson
Janice 1964-2016
Thank you Honey Bear0 -
I'm in please - many thanks for the list. I'm going to really try to do at least a couple of things from the list. I get so easily distracted by the dreaded FB and can easily lose loads of time on there.
HB so sorry to hear about Devil Cat.
FlymarketeerI have managed to sell £35 of stuff on Fleabay; must list more.
Scrimpers I'll keep trying; not counting my lessons as that's essential.
Got the house to myself as J and kids away in Bude for a few days so must make the best use of my time. I do have a riding lesson on Breggey at 11 so need to get dressed, put washing on and do a few bits before heading off to the yard. Will Fly this afternoon.Flymarkeeteer: £168 and counting0
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