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Mother is trying to control me still

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  • ska_lover
    ska_lover Posts: 3,773 Forumite
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    edited 5 April 2018 at 8:36PM
    I think people struggle with this because I know there ARE narcassistic mothers out there etc, but people struggle to understand a mother that would steal medication from her daughter and set out to harm her, yet you go back over and over for more - you are totally stuck in a neverending rut of drama heaped upon more unneccesary drama

    You seem shocked that she didnt speak to you for a week. A week of not speaking is LONG to you? During a busy spell I can go longer than this without speaking to my adult kids. And i havent fallen out with them , its called having a life. going to work, not all working the same hours etc

    I think you are way too much in each others pocket and you are not good for each other. Rightly or wrongly you are not good for each other, neither of you are blameless cos if she is bad as you say then you enable her BS to continue and so the cycle goes...with each being a victim in their own minds
    The opposite of what you know...is also true
  • eschaton
    eschaton Posts: 2,094 Forumite
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    Still no update Kirstie?

    Just like other threads, you post a lot, then you stop but keep dropping by to see what is being said, then you disappear until the next thread.

    Would be nice to see a story with a conclusion.
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