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Visiting tradesman -your responsibility?

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  • Tigsteroonie
    Tigsteroonie Posts: 24,954 Forumite
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    But whatever happened, whichever story is true, it's nothing to do with you!
    :heartpuls Mrs Marleyboy :heartpuls

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  • Tygermoth
    Tygermoth Posts: 1,413 Forumite
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    I Agree :)


    I just felt a bit uncomfortable that people were jumping to conclusions the neighbour was instigator of the escalation from words to violence. Especially when I don't actually think that was quite the case. Not that words cant be just as painful a weapon.
    Please note I have a cognitive disability - as such my wording can be a bit off, muddled, misspelt or in some cases i can miss out some words totally...
  • DaftyDuck
    DaftyDuck Posts: 4,609 Forumite
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    So (I so hate all posts that begin with "so" but so what?)... You either have two complete a55holes, or one partial a55hole neighbour and a complete a55hole engineer, or a complete a55hole neighbour and a partial a55hole engineer... Maybe some other permutation. One thing is clear.

    They are. You are not.

    Let them fart away at each other, and not pollute your airspace. I would still bother with a totally non-urgent 101, just so a nice young tall PCSO or something can get a nice cup of tea from you at some point, and you can discuss the Venn diagram of rectal participants.

    Two, complete, is my opinion!
  • dunroving
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    This is like watching an episode of East Enders. So much unnecessary drama.

    Turn off the "telly" and read a relaxing book.
    (Nearly) dunroving
  • gardner1
    gardner1 Posts: 3,154 Forumite
    You don't beat around the bush, do you?

    He sounds the sort of person who needs to be firmly told before it sinks in......to be honest he sounds like a bully and it needs somebody bigger than him to hmm.........shall we say persuade him otherwise
  • Marvel1
    Marvel1 Posts: 7,461 Forumite
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    Just ignore him, notes through the door - bin,probably easier said than done.
  • rach_k
    rach_k Posts: 2,259 Forumite
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    Ask your neighbour for his employer's details as you need to contact them about their employee fighting in the street? Similar logic to his!
  • Marvel1
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    Tygermoth wrote: »
    I Agree :)


    I just felt a bit uncomfortable that people were jumping to conclusions the neighbour was instigator of the escalation from words to violence. Especially when I don't actually think that was quite the case. Not that words cant be just as painful a weapon.

    So why are you worried about the neighbour waiting for you when you come home?
  • Norman_Castle
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    Give the neighbour the plumbers details as that is who his argument is with.
  • kinger101
    kinger101 Posts: 6,626 Forumite
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    DaftyDuck wrote: »
    I don't normally condone anything that inflames a situation, belonging to G_M's nursing home/school of "tea and cake"... but I do hope Tm investigates this route. Twice :D:D

    This situation definitely requires a chocolate cake.

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    "Real knowledge is to know the extent of one's ignorance" - Confucius
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