Pregnant and single, all in the same day!

Squiggly_Diddly

Just caught up on this too - I remember reading when you first posted.

Congratulations on your gorgeous son & well done to you for keeping going when the going got tough...!!!! Hope you managed to sort house, job, etc without too much stress in the end.

As as for the ex, it's his loss...

Pssst

Dont forget to contact the father as he is responsible for the child also. If he doesnt comply then CSA.

dolly25_2

Congratulations, what a little stunner!!

Cerenia

Ooops, just saw orig date XD Congrats!!

On a side note, feel free to come into the Boots thread, we can show you and teach you glitches and whatnot to help you get things for you and your little one for very little

Nicifer_noonoo

sarymclary wrote: »

OMG!
What happened with your job, what did you decide to do? What are your plans for the future now?

I left in November, and went to university full time. I finished six days after he was born I've decided to take a year out and spend it with little man, but I'll be going back to Uni and work next September

candygirl

Nicifer_noonoo wrote: »

I left in November, and went to university full time. I finished six days after he was born I've decided to take a year out and spend it with little man, but I'll be going back to Uni and work next September

Good on you hun, the baby is gawguss:)My DD has returned home pregnant, after her and her bf planned a baby for months.When it came to the crunch he was too much of a wimp to take on any responsibility, and made her life so unbearable she had to leave last weekend.At least I know she's safe with me, and the way I look at it, at least he's shown his true colours earlier rather than later :mad: :mad: :mad: She's having her first scan tomoz, and i'm going with her, can't wait!!!:j :j

Cerisa

it can be done. there are vouchers available to help, and if no friends/relatives have baby stuff, scour freecycle and the freebies lists. Also if you wanted to get further education the government really help you out - my uni also had *free* childcare which was a big help.

Krystaltips

My ex had abandoned me and I lost my job by the time I was 10 weeks pregnant. I was 23 at the time and felt far too young too be going through it... But I got through it, I have a 4year old daughter I am very proud of, I get married in 2 weeks to a wonderful man who my daughter adores and we have baby number 2 cooking, due next May... Things do have happy endings!

Oh, and DD has seen the man that knocked me up 5 times in her whole life and nothing for the last 20 months... She calls OH Daddy and as far as everybody is concerned he really is!

Amber_Sunshine

HI Nic, congratulations and thanks for the update. Wishing you and Kennedy all the best.

RustyFlange

Krystaltips wrote: »

My ex had abandoned me and I lost my job by the time I was 10 weeks pregnant. I was 23 at the time and felt far too young too be going through it... But I got through it, I have a 4year old daughter I am very proud of, I get married in 2 weeks to a wonderful man who my daughter adores and we have baby number 2 cooking, due next May... Things do have happy endings!

Oh, and DD has seen the man that knocked me up 5 times in her whole life and nothing for the last 20 months... She calls OH Daddy and as far as everybody is concerned he really is!

Snap ... my OH (who was my ex at the time don't ask it gets confusing!) left m e when I was 13 weeks pregnant and told me to have an abortion, whilst I was a little older than you it was still too much to go through. I already had my son from a previous relationship and felt I had nowhere to turn. However I decided to keep the baby, and when she was born he immediately fell in love with her, and we got back together when she was 3 weeks old ... we are now living together and he brings up my son as his own aswell. Some endings are good ones

Congratulations on the birth of your baby!