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Missing Item - eBay
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How do folks who have business eBay accounts fare?
I guess we get a bit hardened to it. That's not to say you don't doubt yourself sometimes, we are all human.
Like some on here I would get the buyer to open a case and personally would take the most cost effective remedy. If that meant no return, then so be it. But if it mean paying £x in postage to get £y back but I was still up by £z, then that's the option I would take. Unless the partial refund of £a was less.
As a business, you write these "losses" into your business model, much like Sainsbury's expect a certain amount of shoplifting......sad though it is.0 -
I think as a business seller it is easier to call peoples bluff and take a bigger hit on return postage if they do actually return the item they obviously want a partial refund on. As a sole trader it is easier to have your business lose a few quid than it come out of your pocket even if it is coming out your pocket. If that makes sense.0
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I had a message yesterday regarding a Valentines Day related item that was posted on 5th Feb
"Hi, not received and it's too late now so can I get a refund". Replied asking them to open a case as a straight refund will get me a defect.
No response.You're only young once, but you can be immature forever
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Yes, I find that requesting the buyer open a case usually means that I hear no more from them.0
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Shouty message received today along the lines of "why have you not sent me a replacement and why have you not given me a refund".
I've replied and said open a case, return received items as they were sent (foil wrapped tubes) and bubble wrap envelope and we will take it from there.
I expect another shouty message.0 -
Shouty message received today along the lines of "why have you not sent me a replacement and why have you not given me a refund".
I've replied and said open a case, return received items as they were sent (foil wrapped tubes) and bubble wrap envelope and we will take it from there.
I expect another shouty message.
I wouldn't reply now until a case is opened. Pointless keep saying the same thing.0 -
theonlywayisup wrote: »I wouldn't reply now until a case is opened. Pointless keep saying the same thing.
And send copies of the shouty messages to Ebay. Scammers having their card marked is never a bad thing.0 -
And send copies of the shouty messages to Ebay. Scammers having their card marked is never a bad thing.
I've had a few more shouty messages:
WHO SAID YOU CAN'T GIVE ME A REFUND?
Y DO I HAVE TO OPEN A CASE!!!!
I've not responded to either and have reported her to eBay. I'm also going to get them to call me so I can explain everything in case they didn't understand what I had explained.
Thanks for all your help folks. This time last week I was tempted to give in and just refund her for one even though I am 100% sure I sent her 3. I am so glad I didn't.0 -
I've had a few more shouty messages:
WHO SAID YOU CAN'T GIVE ME A REFUND?
Y DO I HAVE TO OPEN A CASE!!!!
I've not responded to either and have reported her to eBay. I'm also going to get them to call me so I can explain everything in case they didn't understand what I had explained.
Thanks for all your help folks. This time last week I was tempted to give in and just refund her for one even though I am 100% sure I sent her 3. I am so glad I didn't.
Well done for not giving in.
I only wish more people stood up to these scammers and they might think twice next time.0 -
"can't be asked with the flaff" is making me giggle.0
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