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  • And to clear up, for the poster above, it's a regular class, ie monthly and not weekly regular. I saw two people from about 2 who had been last time. It's not a subscription thing. It gets advertised a month before, people pay and go.

    As for making comments on the event page or marking myself as attending...a) have an annoying friend who likes to comment and draw attention to everything like that b) I like the fact I don't know anyone there, means I have no safety net. Plus it's my own little hobby thing
  • 2 from 20 I should have said.
    And this message sending was based on the chance of not seeing her again potentially.... leaving it another month for her not to go along would be too long a gap to message, and she'd have less of a clue about remembering a face etc

    Not really going to debate it....opinions are like.....we all have one, even on this subject!

    Have a good week
  • rach_k wrote: »
    I do think there's a generational thing going on - I wouldn't find it creepy for somebody to find my Facebook page from an event. That's kind of what it's for, isn't it, to see who else is going and have a nosy at their public profiles?!

    OP, it sounds like you don't like using Facebook much but you could post a comment or two on the event's page. If your profile is pretty locked down, only what you post on the event would be viewable to the public. If she might like you too, you might find she replies and then you have a conversation started.
    Agreed Rach, thank you
  • gycraig wrote: »
    How old are you ? In the modern era of tinder plenty of fish etc This is a perfectly normal thing now.

    Chuck her a Facebook add, and leave it if she accepts pm her if she doesn’t just move on
    Agree with the sentiment. Dropped her a messenger message. Would be very unwise to fb friend request her though.
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