📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!

Earthgirl's Final Battle

18182848687124

Comments

  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,692 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    Good news on the pay rise :)
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • themadvix
    themadvix Posts: 8,792 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Mortgage-free Glee! Photogenic
    Excellent news all round! Must be a relief that your friend is coping better.
    Mortgage free 16/06/2023! £132,500 cleared in 11 years, 3 months and 7 days

    'Now is no time to think of what you do not have. Think of what you can do with what there is.' Ernest Hemingway


  • lindez
    lindez Posts: 643 Forumite
    Sixth Anniversary 500 Posts
    Just stopped by and read back a few months you have done really well congratulations on all of your achievements. I have subscribed to your you tube.
    Loved your target setting I must start to plan ahead. I am off now to try and see if I can find a spreadsheet on the internet (I am hopeless with techi stuff) I will also look at some budget planning site thank you for the inspiration.
    MFWB#2
    MFTT5 #28
    Save 12k 2020 #111
  • earthgirl
    earthgirl Posts: 3,762 Forumite
    Mortgage-free Glee!
    lindez wrote: »
    Just stopped by and read back a few months you have done really well congratulations on all of your achievements. I have subscribed to your you tube.
    Loved your target setting I must start to plan ahead. I am off now to try and see if I can find a spreadsheet on the internet (I am hopeless with techi stuff) I will also look at some budget planning site thank you for the inspiration.


    Thank you so much Lindez, thats so kind. I think lately I've been less focused on money, but now I am really really on track and properly budgeted I feel so much better and really motivated.

    May budget here: https://youtu.be/vu8h_RW6TIY

    Thanks for subscribing on youtube, I've read that the more I have the more yt shows my videos and the quicker I can grow! I'm still very new to this though!
    15/5/12 Paid off Mortgage 1 (£220k) Bought Dream House:www: Dec 13 - Mortage 2 -£116,508. 15/7/18 Mortgage Free Again :j

    Progress not Perfection
  • Karmacat
    Karmacat Posts: 39,460 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Things are sounding great, and *you're* sounding really happy right now :) lovely. It's coming up to a long weekend (I hope its a holiday for you personally, with all that you have to juggle) so have a great time :):):)
    2023: the year I get to buy a car
  • WannabeFree
    WannabeFree Posts: 4,438 Forumite
    1,000 Posts Fourth Anniversary Name Dropper Photogenic
    Just caught up on your youtube videos. You're amazing. I don't know what else to say

    Hope you have a lovely weekend
    x
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
  • Needhelpsaving
    Needhelpsaving Posts: 1,083 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper
    I've been watching your YouTube videos too and find them really helpful :T:T:T
    2022 Target - Reduce new mortgage balance after house move - Part 1 (Ported) Starting balance £39,982.12 currently £37,242.19 Part 2 Starting Balance £101,997.88 currently £96,197.38 (as at 19/04/2022)
  • earthgirl
    earthgirl Posts: 3,762 Forumite
    Mortgage-free Glee!
    edited 6 May 2019 at 8:57PM
    Thanks so much for watching me! I'm getting there..

    Had a lovely weekend with a little worrying blip today..

    Generally had a lovely time though, got a lot of niggling things completed, cleaned out the childrens toys and they have already been playing more with their toys because the things that were too young for them have been cleared out.

    Also collected item ds left at bbs, cleaned out the shed, renewed travel insurance, did banking tasks, generally reduced my do do list to a manageable little list for this week.

    I have been worried about ds2 for a while, mainly inability to deal with emotions. Today he hit a boy at a party - the other mums said he had been winding him up, tripped up kids etc- but still. His problems going to school and with everything really are just his inability to manage his emotions. Add to that his eating problems, sensitivity to textures, fixed mindset and other little niggly things have just got me quite concerned. I think he is mildly autistic and that I need to do a bit more research before I do anything. At this point I don't think intervention would be a good idea as it is currently quite mild and having a small effect on his life, there is also an argument that intervention is wrong and these differences are just differences. OH is dead against finding out if he should be seen be a medical professional as he feels a label will be detrimental. This is a common denial phase - and it is quite mild. It may be taken out of my hands anyway if the school take action.

    Anyway on to good news. University have been in touch and I have 1 student for 3 weeks, hopefully another will be added to that so that's great - I've set a 4k income target for summer!
    15/5/12 Paid off Mortgage 1 (£220k) Bought Dream House:www: Dec 13 - Mortage 2 -£116,508. 15/7/18 Mortgage Free Again :j

    Progress not Perfection
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,692 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    4k income for summer :eek:
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • Karmacat
    Karmacat Posts: 39,460 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Earthie, one of my nephews was quite symptomatic in the way you describe - he was later (not till a teenager) diagnosed with dyslexia. It wasn't till he got to university that he got proper help, but it definitely affected him emotionally. Try not to worry too much, just support and love. And support and love to you too xxx
    2023: the year I get to buy a car
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 351.3K Banking & Borrowing
  • 253.2K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 453.7K Spending & Discounts
  • 244.3K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 599.5K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 177.1K Life & Family
  • 257.8K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16.2K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.6K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.