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  • badmemory
    badmemory Posts: 9,533 Forumite
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    I still haven't had anyone trying to hand me a parcel yet.  But then our numbers are worse than yours.  It also saves them time if they can put it down & walk away, so I suspect that we will be stuck with this here until their bosses actually tell them to get a proper signature.  I'm surprised they are actually prepared to wait to hand it over if they don't need to as they are on a pretty tight delivery schedule/time clock!
  • Karmacat
    Karmacat Posts: 39,460 Forumite
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    Yeah, this guy really hadn't been reading his updates!  So I just told him what I wanted him to do.  Didn't feel able to do that when I was having a parcel *collected* by Royal Mail, but still, piece by piece.

    I still need some time chilling, but also I need to keep an eye on the weather, I have some washing out there drying.  Frankly, there are so many items on my to-do list that make me think "ooh, I must do that", I'm not going to list them :blush: 
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  • apple_muncher
    apple_muncher Posts: 15,230 Forumite
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    Our delivery chaps and chapesses here are brill - pop the parcel in front of the step, ring the bell and knock on the door and they step right back. Sometimes they are back around the corner before I can thank them! Some need a photo of the parcel in my hand for their proof - i assume they just get my hand in the pic, as I'm not really photogenic!!!
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  • rtandon27
    rtandon27 Posts: 5,597 Forumite
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    Most of our delivery chappies are wonderful & quite happy to leave the parcel on the step as long as I've stuck my head out the upstairs window to acknowledge that I know it has been left.  After knocking, our postie even waits 3 steps back for me to open the door and step away, before he picks up letters/parcels from the shelf beside the front door.  He even consciously steps back to scan them into his system and exchange a few pleasantries before continuing on his rounds.

    On the odd occasion where a delivery chap has insisted on having a picture beside an open door, I've indicated that they can leave it on a the step and take a picture, or I can refuse delivery and they can take it back.  My understanding is that the paperwork associated with a non-delivery is not worth their time, so they begrudgingly leave it, take a picture on the step and then leave.  As you indicated KC it's a delivery on your terms not theirs!
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  • Cheery_Daff
    Cheery_Daff Posts: 17,092 Forumite
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    I once had a picture confirming delivery, of a parcel clearly just lobbed over the gate and sat in the middle of the front lawn 🙄😂

    How interesting about your relative being bought out of the Navy. Presumably he shouldn't have been allowed to sign up in the first place? Was £20 a lot of money? I bet his mother was cross, and I also bet there were people who couldn't afford to buy their sons out (and possibly sons who later regretted lying omabout their age...). Interesting stuff.
  • Karmacat
    Karmacat Posts: 39,460 Forumite
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    Delivery people round here *used* to do that kind of thing - though before the pandemic, I had somebody throw a piece of electronic equipment (headphones?  I can't remember) over my side gate - and it was a wet night, there was no notice that they'd "delivered", and when I checked, it was listed as "delivery to greenhouse".  I don't have a greenhouse  >:)  It's all good: he stood back when I asked him to, that was the main thing.

    The age at enlistment is interesting in the UK, Cheery - the Army *still* lets boys of 16 or 17 sign on legally, though they're not allowed on the front lines.  There's something about children that age in the navy serving on land-based training "ships".  I think they could sign up legally at that age, but if the parents disagreed, they could nullify the contract by buying it out, so to speak.  £20 was a fair amount, but not crippling - Hansard has this WAGES (1914 AND 1919). (Hansard, 1 August 1919) (parliament.uk) gives wages per shift for working men as anything between 7s for a dock labourer to 83s for a train engine driver.  This family were skilled working class.  I have to get to grips with all that still: I was doing a mad download yesterday, so I'm not sure where the document is, and I haven't got any backup research done yet either :blush:   It will come!
     
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