Mooloo’s Managing it in 2018

Savvy_sewing

bellabella wrote: »

And WHO are you to tell me what to think yes I am all for those who are physically or mentally challenged to have every help afforded to them but I am not into mollycoddling a family who make continuous poor choices sorry if you want something you should work for it not expect it surely that is not a bad thought or should we all make and continue to make poor choices and have expectations of free housing free money and so on and our children paid for ?

I am deeply upset by your comments here. While this is my story and an open forum you are of course entitled to post, however your mixing up facts and putting together the information rather twistedly.
I don't feel like trying to explain it all to you again.
Yes I tell it my way, as I see it, and you may disagree but you don't need to be rude to other people either.
Over many years my life has been on here. Yes I have a 3 bedroom house, and yes I could downsize if necessary, however when my tenancy was made it was a different housing, by the council and I have a right to stay for as long as I need as long as I am paying my bills and keeoit in good repair. The spare room only just fits a small bed and chest of drawers, no room for a wardrobe. So it's not as if I am in a palatial home. In fact the room sizes are deemed too small these days.
Anyway here I am again trying to Explain but what is the point because you already have your opinion and it is rather twisted.
I don't think I will bother acknowledging or responding to you anymore.
All you have done is stir the sewage.

BrassicWoman

Mooloo, remember the block/ignore function.... keeps me sane many a time!

Savvy_sewing

Oh I will say one more thing?
Would you prefer I made them go back home to their house and let them be murdered and raped? Because the police have advised that they don't return.
The firebrigade has changed the front door so they can't be firebombed.!!!!

If swearing came up on here my next words would be choice.
Very choice.
Just go away! I am doing my best in very stressful times.
I don't need you

Savvy_sewing

BrassicWoman wrote: »

Mooloo, remember the block/ignore function.... keeps me sane many a time!

Oh I didn't know that was available.
Off to see if I can find it!

charlie3090

bellabella wrote: »

if thats the case why have you not moved somewhere smaller after all you got a 3 bed house as DS lived with you? and now there are just two of you
DS and GF need to push themselves they need to find 2nd jobs and push there earnings up there is plenty of little jobs around leafleting ,cleaning and so on it seems its excuse after excuse as to why they cant stand on their own two feet and be decent hard working members of society
I dont apologise as there are many people working hard many hours a day to make ends meet and this situation seems to yet again rely on everyone else providing everything for them as their right

Just for the record,
its not always that easy to downsize anyway as the majority of councils/housing associations have far more 3 bed properties than 2 beds.
Where I live every row of 6-10 houses only have either end as 2 beds all the others are 3.
Yes you are entitled to your opinion but how you are expressing it is just nasty( in my opinion of course).

Savvy_sewing

So I am at work. Practiced all my calm gratitude stuff as I walked in so that I can leave the negative start to my day at the door.
Brought a shiny blue 4 balloon to bounce around outside. Have my fun sewing related shoes on and my logo shirt.
Mooloo's the shop is 4 years old!
Mooloo's the business is 51/2!

BrassicWoman

Mooloo wrote: »

Oh I didn't know that was available.
Off to see if I can find it!

click on the user name on the left


view public profile


on the profile under the name is user lists - click and then "add to ignore list"


It'll show their post but you can't read it until you make an extra click, so you can avoid totally or choose to read


It helps me remember it's a poster I thougth was particularly daft or offensoie, and prevents them PMin me

BrassicWoman

Mooloo wrote: »

Brought a shiny blue 4 balloon to bounce around outside. Have my fun sewing related shoes on and my logo shirt.
Mooloo's the shop is 4 years old!

Hurrah!!!!

Redlady.....

bellabella wrote: »

And WHO are you to tell me what to think yes I am all for those who are physically or mentally challenged to have every help afforded to them but I am not into mollycoddling a family who make continuous poor choices sorry if you want something you should work for it not expect it surely that is not a bad thought or should we all make and continue to make poor choices and have expectations of free housing free money and so on and our children paid for ?

Eh? Where did I tell you what to think? I was commenting on your, what comes across as, self righteous moral judgements.
What is it they say about walking a mile in someone else's shoes?

Sorry for derailing your thread Mooloo, I won't comment on this person's attitude again. As someone else says, you are very brave to tell us all about your life and I'm sure, like me, there are many people reading it and hoping each day is going to be a good one for you.

ognum

bellabella wrote: »

And WHO are you to tell me what to think yes I am all for those who are physically or mentally challenged to have every help afforded to them but I am not into mollycoddling a family who make continuous poor choices sorry if you want something you should work for it not expect it surely that is not a bad thought or should we all make and continue to make poor choices and have expectations of free housing free money and so on and our children paid for ?

Interesting what some people opinions of ‘mollycoddling’ are.

It seems to me from your posts that you don’t work (maybe due to health issues) but spend your life dropping off your children and picking them up at all hours of the day.

Maybe your dog getting a blueberry facial and a massage could be considered by some as over the top?

I simply put these out there to suggest we are all different and as you have put it out there on the Internet I am apparently allowed to comment.