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  • Seasidegal58
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    Things appear on the up and up for you as each day passes Pauline. You’re doing great!
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  • Lilith1980
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    It's understandable that you'd be shattered as you're pushing yourself to do things you're not used to. Keep going; it'll get easier :D
  • UncannyScot
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    Morning Pauline :D

    You are doing great. As others are saying, it will become easier for you.

    I'm reminded of a saying an old friend used;
    "FEAR can have two meanings,
    Forget Everything And Run
    or
    Face Everything And Rise
    The choice is YOURS.
    I WILL RISE" :D

    Have a grand day ;)
    :A
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  • beanielou
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    Morning Pauline :D

    You are doing great. As others are saying, it will become easier for you.

    I'm reminded of a saying an old friend used;
    "FEAR can have two meanings,
    Forget Everything And Run
    or
    Face Everything And Rise
    The choice is YOURS.
    I WILL RISE" :D

    Have a grand day ;)
    :A

    LOving this.
    We will rise:A
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  • WannabeFree
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    Morning Pauline,

    Hope you have a good day, be kind to yourself

    :A

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  • Hi Pauline
    the concert sounds like a lovely experience. glad you got out there and did it! be kind to yourself, and take things at your own pace :)

    much love T&K
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  • Good evening

    I am finding the lows after a challenge, such as the hygienist, really hard to handle.

    Yesterday I did go out to see a friend whose father died on Sunday. Even when a death is expected, it's not easy to deal with. There's so little to say.

    Today I am back to being good for nothing. I am tired and a bit teary. I know I am getting better but I am exhausted afterwards.

    I am off to have a little swim in a bit. I don't want to go but I am determined to get there. I have eaten well again today.

    So I am off to the dentist tomorrow. That isn't going to be too bad

    Thanks for popping by
    Pauline
    Don't get it perfect - Get it going
    Better Than Before
  • I hope you managed to get out for your swim Pauline. You will get low days as you are pushing yourself out of your comfort zone, but they should lessen in time :).
    Finally Debt Free After 34 Years, But Still Need to Live Frugally
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  • Lilith1980
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    Glad you're going for your swim, despite not feeling like it. Challenging yourself is going to be emotionally draining. Be kind to yourself, you're doing great :)
  • beanielou
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    I am like that often Pauline.
    Wiped out by a day of doing bits & bobs.
    Slowly learning that I more often than not need a day in between.
    So dont beat yourself up for it.
    It is what it is.
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

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    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
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