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“Rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life.”

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  • WannabeFree
    WannabeFree Posts: 4,438 Forumite
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    It is really cold here tonight Beanie, so I can imagine it's even colder up there. I've been tempted to turn the heating up a little all day! I haven't though.

    Everything done and everyone asleep

    x
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,643 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    So I take it no word on the DLA?
    Will you maybe have time to speak to them this week?
    x
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    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • WannabeFree
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    edited 21 January 2019 at 9:40PM
    Need to appeal Beanie. Have left a message with the MP asking for help

    Not a good day :o

    I think that's made my mood even worse to be honest. I think I was hoping it would be sorted soon now and it would just make things so much easier. Plus being tired doesn't help I guess :o tired of juggling too much :o
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
  • Sun_Addict
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    I can't believe they're making you appeal the DLA, you must've got more then enough medical evidence to back up the claim. So unfair :(

    Hope you get everything sorted very soon xx
    I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,643 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    So they have turned down the MR?
    With all the additional medical evidence :mad: :mad:
    I will not type what I think of that.
    I am sure you get my drift.
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,643 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    No blooming wonder you tired of juggling it all.
    What can any of us do to help.
    Please tell us.
    Unfortunatly we cannot do anything about the DLA meantime :( xx
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • WannabeFree
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    Yeah the mandatory reconsideration notice came this morning. They aren't changing the outcome. I only opened it this afternoon after being on the phone all morning. I plan to appeal though. With help. We can't manage without it and without carers :o Nor can I expect an employer to put up with me needing so much time off for appointments with her/her being unwell etc.
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
  • teafor2
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    Good grief it's all happening at your end today isn't it :( Will it take long for the appeal meeting - not sure I'm using the correct terminology there, but you'll know what I mean.

    Is it looking like the smalls will be well enough for school tomorrow? x
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,643 Ambassador
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    The appeal can take a while.
    DEpends on the area.
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • Really sorry about the MR decision. It just doesn’t make sense. Glad the MP is involved and fingers crossed the appeal is sorted quickly Xx
    Debts @ LBM £23,729.31. Debts @ 08/04/2016 £0 :j
    Best win so far - holiday to Florida
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