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  • I hope you feel better soon Wannabe. I bet the Christmas lights look lovely :).
    Finally Debt Free After 34 Years, But Still Need to Live Frugally
    Debt in July 2017 = £58,766 😱 DEBT FREE 31 OCTOBER 2017 :T 🎉
    EMERGENCY FUND 1 = £50/£5,000. EMERGENCY FUND 2 = £10/£5,000.
    CHRISTMAS SAVINGS = £0/£500. SEF = £1,400/£12,000 PREMIUM BONDS ME = £350. PREMIUM BONDS DH = £300.
    HOLIDAY MONEY = £0 TIME LEFT TO PAY OFF MORTGAGE = 5 YEARS 1 MONTHS
  • Cherryfudge
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    Hope you're all snuggled up. What horrible weather! Gingerbread and plenty of rest on the sofa will help you get better x
    I think a bit of sunshine is good for frugal living. (Cranky40)
    The sun's been out and I think I’m solar powered (Onebrokelady)

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  • Get well soon. Have a lovely chilled weekend Xx
    Debts @ LBM £23,729.31. Debts @ 08/04/2016 £0 :j
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  • Hello W,

    I've been away and just catching up. Sorry to hear about all your troubles. I hope all of you are feeling better now.

    My late mother used to say that you should never promise children something you can't deliver so not telling the wee ones was the right thing to do. It's really bad to disappoint children and you would never, ever do that yourself so why should anyone else?

    Your're doing great in very difficult circumstances.

    Take care of yourself as well. xxxx
    Have adventures. laugh a lot and always be kind.
  • WannabeFree
    WannabeFree Posts: 4,438 Forumite
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    Thank you, it's only a cold no doubt youngest has shared :rotfl:

    We didn't bake :o To be honest we haven't done anything

    We've just had a really slow day watching TV and pottering round :o

    Have arranged to collect the ashes on Friday so she will be home for Xmas :A

    We do need to do a card so we can post it. We will do that and the gingerbread tomorrow. Might pop some other Xmas biscuits in the oven at the same time and then the smalls can take them to the nursing home on the way to school Monday. Make the most of the oven being on.

    x
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 97,493 Ambassador
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    Check your PM's :)
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
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  • WannabeFree
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    Sorry was putting smalls to bed.

    Thank you :A

    You know who you are :heart2:
    x
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
  • WannabeFree
    WannabeFree Posts: 4,438 Forumite
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    December Plans

    Money
    CT £12.50/£50
    Rent £25/£100


    Budgeted Spends
    [STRIKE]£2 Stay and play workshop DD2[/STRIKE]Paid
    [STRIKE]£15 DD2 School Trip[/STRIKE] Paid
    [STRIKE]£7 DD2 Nativity[/STRIKE] Paid
    [STRIKE]£7 DD1 Nativity[/STRIKE] Paid
    [STRIKE]£7 DS Nativity[/STRIKE] Paid
    [STRIKE]£9 School Christmas Lunch[/STRIKE] Paid
    [STRIKE]£10 School Christmas Fayre[/STRIKE] Not going to attend :o
    [STRIKE]£9 School Santa's Grotto[/STRIKE] Not going to attend
    [STRIKE]£5 Birthday/anniversary cards/stamps[/STRIKE] Not sending now
    [STRIKE]£20 Xmas Gifts (To finish the smalls off)[/STRIKE] Not doing now
    [STRIKE]£3 Wrapping paper[/STRIKE] Won't need now


    Things To Do
    4th Dec - [STRIKE]Christmas Workshop DD2[/STRIKE]
    5th Dec - [STRIKE]DD2 School Trip [/STRIKE]
    6th Dec - [STRIKE][STRIKE]Pantomime (School)[/STRIKE][/STRIKE]
    6th Dec - [STRIKE]SIL Birthday Card[/STRIKE]
    7th Dec - [STRIKE]DD Respiratory appointment[/STRIKE]
    9th Dec - [STRIKE]Pantomime[/STRIKE]
    11th Dec - [STRIKE]School Christmas Lunch[/STRIKE]
    12th Dec - [STRIKE]DD2 Nativity[/STRIKE]
    13th Dec - [STRIKE]School Christmas Fayre[/STRIKE]
    17th Dec - [STRIKE]Send Anniversary Card [/STRIKE]
    18th Dec - DD1 Nativity
    19th Dec - DS Nativity
    19th Dec - [STRIKE]Send Relatives Birthday Card[/STRIKE]

    Make Xmas Cards
    [STRIKE]Send Xmas Cards[/STRIKE]
    Not sure we will be able to make these now but if we have ingredients we will still do enough to go to the nursing home Will make biscuits/gingerbread and deliver Monday
    Make Xmas Gifts
    Deliver Xmas Gifts

    Unbudgeted Spends
    Vet £105.60

    Vet £69 (on the 21st)
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
  • WannabeFree
    WannabeFree Posts: 4,438 Forumite
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    Feeling more organised now we've cut the to-do list down a lot. We will do the baking and the card tomorrow and I have it all set up so no excuses.

    Only the two nativities this week to do and I have already got the tickets for me to go. I'm just attending the morning 'show' so I don't need to pay for the other smalls to attend too :o

    We have no other plans for this week. Our activity a day hasn't really been done in any sort of order this time but we have done something everyday even if a few have been as simple as reading an Xmas story in bed etc.

    I'm going to hang up the rest of the decorations they have made and I will finish my cards to the smalls so they can put those up too. Secretly hoping they will make me one ;) :rotfl:

    x
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 97,493 Ambassador
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    You could come & put up my decorations:p;)
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
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